DIY divorce

[vwdan]

No there is a lot new here - if back in the day a woman decided to up sticks and fook off on her husband that was her lookout very little sympathy from the court.

Now she has the right to kick him out Citation Needed take half (or more than half) Citation Needed, deny him access to the kids and does not really need to give a reason. Citation Needed

Sorry but nowadays many women do enter marriage not thinking it will be forever but thinking it will set me up forever. Citation Needed

So come on get with the program please.

Mmmhmmm?

[Dallas]

No there is a lot new here - if back in the day a woman decided to up sticks and fook off on her husband that was her lookout very little sympathy from the court.

Now she has the right to kick him out, take half (or more than half) , deny him access to the kids and does not really need to give a reason.

Sorry but nowadays many women do enter marriage not thinking it will be forever but thinking it will set me up forever.

So come on get with the program please.

Well my programme - if i ever am daft enough I will be the one likely to be paying maintenance and that is common among my female peers.

So get with my programme sunshine

[cojak]

Yes, and it also needs NOT to be viewed as a life-long commitment.

If it's viewed as a proper contract, you would have a finite end date (say 5-7 years) with exit provision to be considered (including what to do with the house, the dog and the kids).

Then towards of the contract date both parties can decide to extend the original contract or exit using pre-agreed procedures.

This would be the sensible approach, I reckon.

I like my programme best...

[doodab]

Good to see romance is alive and well.

[cojak]

Good to see romance is alive and well.

I prefer to view it as a clear eyed (and headed) approach.

[Dallas]

Ha - i am currently writing an exit strategy document - I could extend the remit. I know one divorcee contractor would never sign of

[original PM]

Well my programme - if i ever am daft enough I will be the one likely to be paying maintenance and that is common among my female peers.

So get with my programme sunshine

lol oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh

you want me to back up my rants with rational logic and fact -- this is general don't you know?

[doodab]

I prefer to view it as a clear eyed (and headed) approach.

The idea of a Statement of Work detailing services to be provided is oddly appealing.....

[Dallas]

lol oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh

you want me to back up my rants with rational logic and fact -- this is general don't you know?

nope

just happy to call out a moaner when I see one, DGAF about you

[BrilloPad]

The idea of a Statement of Work detailing services to be provided is oddly appealing.....

A couple of Christmas's ago I did get some handwritten vouchers from my wife for various services.