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    It's a Sin - review

    "It's a Sin", is a 5-part drama about the impact of the early 1980's AIDS crisis on London's young gay men.

    It's A Sin - On Demand - All 4

    I binge-watched all 5 episodes last Sunday, and it had a massive effect on me. It pressed on buttons of vulnerability in me on several levels, and actually succeeded in relapsing my depression for two days from Thursday.
    I'm mostly better now.

    Now I appreciate most of you are straight, so you won't really be able to relate.

    From evoking intense jealousy at the variety and ease of sex the male lead characters were getting (OK this was directly the reason for them dying, but that's kind of not the point).
    To intense sorrow for the characters suffering and dying from AIDS
    To the sense that wow I really understand these people now (I didn't before)
    To the sense of community and love for one another among this clique of 5 or 6 young students - I never experienced this.
    To the combination and some merging of social and sexual interaction - unique I think in the gay community - something I felt instinctively was the case, but hadn't seen directly.
    To the depiction of the straight-laced parents of these gay lads, who were unable to be "out" to them. That depiction being eerily similar to that of my own parents - I always saw my parents as being different from other guys' parents. I now realize they were not that different afterall. With the kicker (slight plot spoiler) that it is the actions of those parents who at the end of the play were ultimately blamed for the whole tragedy, because it was their lack of acceptance that caused great shame to be engendered within these men, such that getting ill with AIDS was to those men a justified "punishment" for their "deficiency", a punishment that it was "morally right" for them to inflict upon themselves and each other.


    A dark night of the soul.


    If you are interested in gay history and culture at all, I strongly recommend this to watch. 9.1/10 on IMDB.
    Just don't do it if you're at all mentally vulnerable like I was!



    Now, how do I get rid of my new infatuation with the lead actor, Olly Alexander. Not healthy at all!
    I never knew who he was until a week ago. He is hot though

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    Thanks! I'd heard about it and there was an interview on R4 yesterday with one of the women part of that group (who I think plays her own mother or something). Will pop it on the to-do list.

    Did you ever see the film BPM (Beats per Minute) from 2017? It's a French film about the AIDS epidemic in the Mitterrand era, based on real life experiences of the writers/director. Quite hard hitting so probably one for when you're not feeling fragile.

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      #3
      ease of sex the male lead characters were getting
      Usually much easier than for straight blokes, just get to it, not all that wooing, expensive dates etc.
      bloggoth

      If everything isn't black and white, I say, 'Why the hell not?'
      John Wayne (My guru, not to be confused with my beloved prophet Jeremy Clarkson)

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        #4
        Originally posted by xoggoth View Post
        Usually much easier than for straight blokes, just get to it, not all that wooing, expensive dates etc.
        Indeed.
        Without going into the gory details, my experience on the gay scene in the (covid-truncated) year since I have come out, concerning the acquisition of sex, has not been mind-blowing, but it HAS been mind-bending. By which I have seen a qualitative not just a quantitative difference between gay men's approach to sex with each other, compared with that between a heterosexual man and woman.
        Sex is, almost, placed at the front of the interaction between gay men - it's what we seem to do first in the process of getting to know each other.
        In contrast to sex with a woman, which for very valid evolutionary reasons is, or can be, the last thing done only once the other pieces are in place.

        I had a discussion on here a year ago on this subject. It formed part of the process of me coming out, and I was very grateful for the supportive and wise messages that people replied with.
        https://www.contractoruk.com/forums/...ack-arrgh.html

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          #5
          Originally posted by GJABS View Post
          Indeed.
          Without going into the gory details, my experience on the gay scene in the (covid-truncated) year since I have come out, concerning the acquisition of sex, has not been mind-blowing, but it HAS been mind-bending. By which I have seen a qualitative not just a quantitative difference between gay men's approach to sex with each other, compared with that between a heterosexual man and woman.
          Sex is, almost, placed at the front of the interaction between gay men - it's what we seem to do first in the process of getting to know each other.
          In contrast to sex with a woman, which for very valid evolutionary reasons is, or can be, the last thing done only once the other pieces are in place.

          I had a discussion on here a year ago on this subject. It formed part of the process of me coming out, and I was very grateful for the supportive and wise messages that people replied with.
          https://www.contractoruk.com/forums/...ack-arrgh.html
          In over 40’s dating, sex on 1st date is the norm these days I would think , much more so when I was a lad


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            #6
            Originally posted by GhostofTarbera View Post
            In over 40’s dating, sex on 1st date is the norm these days I would think , much more so when I was a lad
            You randy sod

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              #7
              Randy or desperate? Hard to tell

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                #8
                Originally posted by GhostofTarbera View Post
                In over 40’s dating, sex on 1st date is the norm these days I would think , much more so when I was a lad
                That's normal when you're paying for it.

                I was quite interested to watch it, having also lived through those times, but put off by the graphic sex scenes. (For the same reason, I can't be bothered with Bridgerton). I'm with Roald Dahl on this one. Sex is great. So is picking your nose. I don't want to see someone else do it, however.
                Down with racism. Long live miscegenation!

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                  #9
                  In over 40’s dating, sex on 1st date is the norm these days I would think
                  You've been luckier than me!

                  PS Or more attractive? Nah! Impossible!
                  PPS Mind you I was into me late 60s when I was on me own again.
                  Last edited by xoggoth; 30 January 2021, 18:13.
                  bloggoth

                  If everything isn't black and white, I say, 'Why the hell not?'
                  John Wayne (My guru, not to be confused with my beloved prophet Jeremy Clarkson)

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by NotAllThere View Post
                    That's normal when you're paying for it.

                    I was quite interested to watch it, having also lived through those times, but put off by the graphic sex scenes. (For the same reason, I can't be bothered with Bridgerton). I'm with Roald Dahl on this one. Sex is great. So is picking your nose. I don't want to see someone else do it, however.

                    Strange never paid for it but I have had sex on the first date (with attractive and non slutty women) in my teens & twenties a number of times. Maybe you guys are doing it wrong? Or just butt ugly?
                    Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

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