Mid-life Crisis may be ?

[WTFH]

From this morning looks like I got to keep on working, went in partners bathroom draw thing to day to get a hair brush found 2 pregnancy testing kits used and they were both postive said 'Pregnant' on both . To say I'm in shock is an under statement she is on the pill. She left house before me this morning and told me she did the test today was going to tell me later face to face .... Shocked.com

Congratulations (or condolences).


Never mind, in 20-30 years time you'll be able to buy a two seater sports car.

[BrilloPad]

Worse news to come, it's not yours.

Check Ashley Madison for her email

[original PM]

yeah you may well also find out that taking the pill changes the babies colour too !

but joking aside congrats!

[Scruff]

From this morning looks like I got to keep on working, went in partners bathroom draw thing to day to get a hair brush found 2 pregnancy testing kits used and they were both postive said 'Pregnant' on both . To say I'm in shock is an under statement she is on the pill. She left house before me this morning and told me she did the test today was going to tell me later face to face .... Shocked.com

You need to invest in a couple of these:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Home-DNA-Sam.../dp/B00577WBBW

If it matches, I would suggest changing your user name to something more appropriate?

[WTFH]

You need to invest in a couple of these:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Home-DNA-Sam.../dp/B00577WBBW

If it matches, I would suggest changing your user name to something more appropriate?

Change the first 4 letters to PM?

[d000hg]

What Tom says, all work is tulip

I don't agree with that. Part of the point of spending time getting well-educated is having the luxury to find work that is interesting AND pays well, rather than just having to take any old job. Having said that, loads of people enjoy pretty "low skill" jobs... but yes personally I find variety makes a big difference.

[DimPrawn]

I don't agree with that. Part of the point of spending time getting well-educated is having the luxury to find work that is interesting AND pays well, rather than just having to take any old job. Having said that, loads of people enjoy pretty "low skill" jobs... but yes personally I find variety makes a big difference.

But then you are one weird little chappie with no friends, so work is your only excitement. No?

[d000hg]

But then you are one weird little chappie with no friends, so work is your only excitement. No?

I'd still rather be doing something else, but I don't see work as a relentless drudge.

[vetran]

From this morning looks like I got to keep on working, went in partners bathroom draw thing to day to get a hair brush found 2 pregnancy testing kits used and they were both postive said 'Pregnant' on both . To say I'm in shock is an under statement she is on the pill. She left house before me this morning and told me she did the test today was going to tell me later face to face .... Shocked.com

I spent years trying to get Mrs V to surprise me in the Bedroom, she came in with a positive Pee stick and shouted SURPRISE! As we have 2 teenage kids I was looking forward to getting the bathroom back.


welcome to the Old Farts with Young uns gang. My older kids love their baby sister.

[vetran]

up until i turned 40 i was stressed

stressed mainly because I did not think i was doing a good enough job so I would work long hard hours trying to please everyone so I would not get sacked (have missus and 2 kids)

anyone hit 40 and had a bit of mid life crisis moment

and i just then thought why the fook am i getting stressed about

so had a word with myself and now I do not stress pretty much come and go as I please, wfh a day or 2 a week.

I realised it was not the job i was in but my attitude to it - do not get me wrong early on a few of the more 'choice d1<kheads' who i work with started trying to make a big deal of it - had a few choice words and they fe<ked off back into the woodwork

then had a chat with line manager and one of the directors and they said doing a great job, good to see you have started to be less rushed and more considered in your approach keep it up and things will continue to go well etc

so there you go was not the 'job' but my attitude to it

Yep suspected heart attack, scary.

Cut back, WFH, work my normal hours and don't suffer users.

They still pay me and grade me OK so much happier.