Mid-life Crisis may be ?

[LondonManc]

From this morning looks like I got to keep on working, went in partners bathroom draw thing to day to get a hair brush found 2 pregnancy testing kits used and they were both postive said 'Pregnant' on both . To say I'm in shock is an under statement she is on the pill. She left house before me this morning and told me she did the test today was going to tell me later face to face .... Shocked.com

Looks like you'll have to go in goal now you're getting on a bit.

[ELBBUBKUNPS]

Thanks for congrats, still in shock, one minute I'm trying to comb my hair next minute I finding out I'm going to be a dad. Bit worried as I have mixed emotions about it at the moment, misses a bit p*ssed off I'm not over the moon about it. May be I will become happier about it over time ....

[LondonManc]

Thanks for congrats, still in shock, one minute I'm trying to comb my hair next minute I finding out I'm going to be a dad. Bit worried as I have mixed emotions about it at the moment, misses a bit p*ssed off I'm not over the moon about it. May be I will become happier about it over time ....

Coathanger, marbles at the top of the stairs, gin, lots of gin?

[vetran]

Thanks for congrats, still in shock, one minute I'm trying to comb my hair next minute I finding out I'm going to be a dad. Bit worried as I have mixed emotions about it at the moment, misses a bit p*ssed off I'm not over the moon about it. May be I will become happier about it over time ....

if you were trying then she is being reasonable, it was the outcome of all that rampant sex you had. If CovBob's missus gets up the Duff he better have a big smile.

If you haven't planned it then you can retreat into "I wanted to be ready and I was taken by surprise, its great news but we haven't organised anything and it will torpedo our finances. I don't want our baby to starve!"

[vetran]

There you go:







your future

[ELBBUBKUNPS]

Not planned though she wanted a kid but I wanted to wait another few years .... May be accidently forgot to take pill .... Pretty worried as I'm not sold on it tbh ... anyone else felt the same when told and did you come round to it over time ?

All I'm thinking now is OMFG, OMFG.

[vetran]

Not planned though she wanted a kid but I wanted to wait another few years .... May be accidently forgot to take pill .... Pretty worried as I'm not sold on it tbh ... anyone else felt the same when told and did you come round to it over time ?

All I'm thinking now is OMFG, OMFG.

You have 3 choices

1. Get rid of it - unlikely. Sounds like its an "Ooops" baby she wanted it and you got it. If you didn't you should of taken care of contraception.
2. MTFU and enjoy it
3. Get rid of her + the kid and get used to a Bedsit.


2 is pretty much the only choice IMHO.

Ours were planned but still very scary!

[original PM]

you think its a 'keepani**a' baby?

[PurpleGorilla]

OP, isn't the done thing nowadays to squeeze your moobs into some spandex and squash your ltd co on a thin small saddle?

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[Platypus]

Mid life crisis? Don't talk to me about mid life crisis !!!