test please delete

[SallyAnne]

It's only been 6 months....

Jesus Cailin!!!!

Sorry for butting in hun, but if you dont know if you love him after 6 months, you're flogging a dead horse mate.

Whats the point if you're not smitten from the offset?

[cailin maith]

Jesus Christ - I am just sooooooo confused!!!

[Diver]

Mmmmmmm...

Dunno much about this...

Giant alian lizards are not noted for wisdom re: romance

[BrilloPad]

20967

[cailin maith]

Jesus Cailin!!!!

Sorry for butting in hun, but if you dont know if you love him after 6 months, you're flogging a dead horse mate.

Whats the point if you're not smitten from the offset?

I know but like I said about husband - was with him for 11 years and still didn't know him. I loved him but at the end he just didn't love me back and now - I know I fon't want to get caught out like that again. I am "smitten" but don't know if thats going to lead to something else?

[Bear]

CM - I'm not sure you're asking the right question.

It seems you're confused about how he's feeling, what he wants etc.

What do you want?

Do you want to spend longer with him?

or do you want to move on?

[cailin maith]

But I do seem to recall that my ex & me were banging each other senseless at 6 months... so much so that I though I was going to die on one occasion.

See thats what I am afraid of - there hasn't been enough of that for me at all!!!

[TheFaQQer]

No he didn't offer to go back, should that mean something?

Not sure if it means something or not.

I know that if I was in that situation, I would want to be there as support. Not knowing what had happened, I would expect a partner to be there to help me through it.

BUT - since he's not met the family, maybe he was thinking that this wasn't the right time or place, and wasn't sure that he would be welcome as a potential "outsider". Maybe he wanted to offer, but didn't want to be "rejected".

[cailin maith]

CM - I'm not sure you're asking the right question.

It seems you're confused about how he's feeling, what he wants etc.

What do you want?

Do you want to spend longer with him?

or do you want to move on?

Ah Jaysus Ted - I want it to be ok.... I'm getting old now, I don't want to be doing the single thing forever but I'm also not just going to settle...

[Diver]

See thats what I am afraid of - there hasn't been enough of that for me at all!!!

Anything we can do