Bankruptcy

[Churchill]

I'm starting to feel bad at paying £2500 a month rent for a house in the NE of England now.

Don't talk sh!te. If you can't be constructive **** off.

[SueEllen]

Don't talk sh!te. If you can't be constructive **** off.

Down boy!

[DimPrawn]

Don't talk sh!te. If you can't be constructive **** off.

Okay.

[Churchill]

Down boy!

Sorry, and you are?

[TheFaQQer]

It's just snobbishness. She has never lived outside of London.

My parents took us on a weekend away to sell the idea of moving north. On the Sunday, they decided that a drive across the moors would show off the countryside and that would seal the deal.

Apart from the fact that is p!ssed it down that day and you could hardly see anything. And my sister got car-sick. And then we got lost in Whitby and got separated. Which then meant my dad was in a foul mood.

So, if you're planning a trip to sell the deal, make sure the forecast is tulip in Swindon and glorious anywhere that you might actually want to move to.

[Sysman]

Still don't see there's a need for the CSA to be involved without extreme circumstance; as in, you'd prefer and be able to agree a maintenance amount.

Because she was apparently talking about claiming housing benefits. The CSA barged into a mate's life when he'd given his ex the house, a car and he never blobbed once on maintenance payments, but as soon as his ex started claiming the dole, they were after him.

[Sysman]

It's just snobbishness. She has never lived outside of London.

You'll never get her to move.

And if you do you'll never change her attitude.

I'd dump her. Seriously. In my opinion she has just moved into suffocating your career territory.

[lilelvis2000]

It's just snobbishness. She has never lived outside of London.

Just grasping at the final straw here...parents? Any chance of moving in with parents or relatives..Or is she into the nuclear family thing.

One of my cousins is married to a woman that never stepped a foot past Watford - and he was living in Rochdale! He finally got her outta London....they now live in Qatar.

[d000hg]

You'll never get her to move.

And if you do you'll never change her attitude.

I'd dump her. Seriously. In my opinion she has just moved into suffocating your career territory.

You value career over partner?

[Sysman]

You value career over partner?

Yes if it means I have to sit on the dole doing effall all day long.

I had a few offers over the years, but there is no way I can simply sit at home doing nowt.

I suppose saying that I obviously didn't find the right partner all those years ago. Overbearing control freak parents I'm afraid.