Rant about my ex wife

[cailin maith]

Who's knows what he does to them first?

very, very true!

[TheFaQQer]

It was bad enough having my ex-wife whine at my daughter after she spilt food on her clothes at a party(she is 6 years old - she spills food - what a suprise) and the kids tell me she makes them wear dirty clothes.

Now my son is a bit ill (being sick every few hours - though gradually getting better). He is off school today - and getting stressed as "Mummy will make me go to school even if I am ill".

Relations between me and the ex have been good over the last year (we merely shout at each other).

My gf wants me to say nothing and keep the peace. I suppose she is right but I am not happy. I have said if there is ANYTHING else I am going to kick off WW3.

Apologies for the rant - you can all get back to your discussions about house prices now.

BP
PS I do know how much her house is worth - I ****ing paid for it.

Have you tried dressing up as Spiderman and climbing on her roof?

Seriously - it sounds to me like the children are playing one off against the other. Whatever happens, I hope you sort something out.

Take care of yourself, and each other.

[BlasterBates]

Must be really dreadful to have a wife that whines slightly when the kids throw food around or ensures the kids go to school. You have my sympathy BP.

Have you thought about taking her to court, to gain custody?

I'm sure you'd have a good case.

[Bumfluff]

Not my ex-wife but ex long term girlfriend of nearly 9 years. She was a f8t ******* b*tch, a snob, aggressive, self deluded, told everyone she was an 'IT project Manager ... at a Bank" she just had to add 'At a bank' as if it made her someone extra special, when all she did was put together s/s for server migratations. At the time I was gutted when she left but now realise she was a ******* f*t bitch, who held me back and made think that I could no better than her and her only interest in me was ££.

So if your reason XXXX you are reading this which I doubt she will be, **** off And you see that nice (nearly new) Audi S3 on the drive, thats you engagement ring lol Also be aware of fat brunette birds who works at Morgan Stanley Canary Whalf, they will serious damage your wallet and though may look goods in cloths once un wrapped she is an erection killer.

I'm not bitter lol

[cailin maith]

Not my ex-wife but ex long term girlfriend of nearly 9 years. She was a f8t frolicking b*tch, a snob, aggressive, self deluded, told everyone she was an 'IT project Manager ... at a Bank" she just had to add 'At a bank' as if it made her someone extra special, when all she did was put together s/s for server migratations. At the time I was gutted when she left but now realise she was a frolicking f*t bitch, who held me back and made think that I could no better than her.

So if your reason this XXXX which I doubt she will be, flip off

And breathe ......

[BrilloPad]

Must be really dreadful to have a wife that whines slightly or ensures the kids go to school. You have my sympathy BP.

Have you thought about taking her to court, to gain custody?

I'm sure you'd have a good case.

As others have pointed out - there is possible manipulation by the children here. Well by my son anyway!

Question is - would I want to? I **could** have stopped her seeing them 2 years ago - I decided not to. I thought it would be best for the kids.

Sometimes kids are better off with their parents even when badly treated - it depends on the extent of what is going on.

I have kids 4 days - my ex 3. I would not go to court - I would just keep them and see what happens. I reckon my ex would just fold. I did once threaten my ex with that - after she left our son (aged 5) home alone!! This is what I referred to above as "behaving like a thug" - I dont like making threats but I dont like her putting the kids in danger.

Interestingly the person who is least happy is "Mrs BP" who is actually my girlfriend. We have a child together. Mrs BP hates the UK and desperately wants to go abroad. The only reason we dont do it is because of the kids and seeing their mother. In some ways she thinks I should have stopped them seeing their mother so we could go abroad!!

Life I so complicated isn't it?

[Pondlife]

So if your reason XXXX you are reading this which I doubt she will be, flip off And you see that nice (nearly new) Audi S3 on the drive, thats you engagement ring lol

2UK, is that you?

[BrilloPad]

Not my ex-wife but ex long term girlfriend of nearly 9 years. She was a f8t frolicking b*tch, a snob, aggressive, self deluded, told everyone she was an 'IT project Manager ... at a Bank" she just had to add 'At a bank' as if it made her someone extra special, when all she did was put together s/s for server migratations. At the time I was gutted when she left but now realise she was a frolicking f*t bitch, who held me back and made think that I could no better than her.

So if your reason XXXX you are reading this which I doubt she will be, flip off And you see that nice (nearly new) Audi S3 on the drive, thats you engagement ring lol

Poor BumFluff

IMO there is a think line between love and hate. One day you will not hate her - you just will not care. For me 2nd May 2008 was a big day - 5 years since decree absolute. It will get better - I promise.......

[Bumfluff]

And breathe ......

Yeah its all out now, not usually that bitter or nasty, but she deserves it.

[BrilloPad]

Not my ex-wife but ex long term girlfriend of nearly 9 years. She was a f8t frolicking b*tch, a snob, aggressive, self deluded, told everyone she was an 'IT project Manager ... at a Bank" she just had to add 'At a bank' as if it made her someone extra special, when all she did was put together s/s for server migratations. At the time I was gutted when she left but now realise she was a frolicking f*t bitch, who held me back and made think that I could no better than her and her only interest in me was ££.

So if your reason XXXX you are reading this which I doubt she will be, flip off And you see that nice (nearly new) Audi S3 on the drive, thats you engagement ring lol Also be aware of fat brunette birds who works at Morgan Stanley Canary Whalf, they will serious damage your wallet and though may look goods in cloths once un wrapped she is an erection killer.

I'm not bitter lol

marriage is 3 rings
engagement
wedding
suffer

IGMC......