You probably need to discuss the options, and try to come to agree on the right balance between income and time together.
If on her side there is no question of balance, you may be in trouble. In my case this was so, and any attempt to point out the trade-off simply led to an accusation that it was my fault for not having a normal career, where I could expect to earn well while working close to home.
She couldn't choose between my income and my presence, and in the end has neither.
If on her side there is no question of balance, you may be in trouble. In my case this was so, and any attempt to point out the trade-off simply led to an accusation that it was my fault for not having a normal career, where I could expect to earn well while working close to home.
She couldn't choose between my income and my presence, and in the end has neither.
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