test please delete

[DS23]

well, i suppose strictly speaking you are abroad... what i meant was far, far away from the family. just you and b/f.

[DaveB]

How about inviting her over to stay with you for new year?

[cailin maith]

If she is likely to cause trouble with the rest of the family, get in there first and tell them you are going to spend New Year with the b/f cos you've had a rocky patch and want to spend it together. Put your side of the story in first.

Good idea... I think I might give me ma a call now!

[cailin maith]

How about inviting her over to stay with you for new year?

She doesn't want to be in Manc - I had already suggested that told her I'd take her out for dinner and stuff but nope she wants to stay at home.

[cailin maith]

well, i suppose strictly speaking you are abroad... what i meant was far, far away from the family. just you and b/f.

Then I really would be in the dog house..... but I wish I could do it!!

[DS23]

He's grand, thanks... beginning to get some confidence back.. got plenty to moan about so mustn't be too bad

good - that is the most important thing.

why not do the opposite of what i just suggested.... anyway christmas without family stress wouldn't be christmas. can the b/f travel to ireland. it's what i used to do...

[DaveB]

Back to plan A then, get on the phone

[BrilloPad]

19461

[DS23]

19461

yeah. we are racing along today. 20k is coming!

[cailin maith]

good - that is the most important thing.

why not do the opposite of what i just suggested.... anyway christmas without family stress wouldn't be christmas. can the b/f travel to ireland. it's what i used to do...

Maybe I should suggest that... about b/f coming to Ireland... I just don't know!!

She just sent me this....

"I will get over it, I don't want you to stay at home because you feel like I am going to be annoyed with you. In my mind you should want to do it without us having to have an argument but you don't feel like that, and I will learn to accept that I am not a priority, difficult as that may be. Checking with Daddy is nice in essence but did you honestly think that I wanted to spend it with him. Its not like I could have gone out with him or anything.

Your life and decisions are your own responsibility, and as long as you can accept the consequences of your decisions then far be it from me to stand in your way."

Aggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh