Girlfriend says its either her or the cat! (while crying in the middle of a walk)

[Bunk]

Now I really am confused.

The one you posted about a few weeks ago had a basset hound and mental health issues. Is this the same girl, sans dog? Or a different girl, with mental health issues?

Doesn't it seem odd that they all have mental health issues? I'm betting they're perfectly normal and Wilmslow is the nutjob. Or I would, if he was real

[MaryPoppins]

I seem to just attract decent sounding people who end up nutters!

[Mich the Tester]

Does this sound bunny boiler?

We spent last Saturday and Wednesday evening together, and yesterday.

She wants to spend a LOT more time with me - we agreed to go Ceroc dancing in Hyde on Wednesday as halfway for both of us. She wants to drive the extra 20 miles past the venue to my house, so see me at home for around 20 mins before we drive all the way back to Hyde for Ceroc lesson. Instead of us both going home after she wants to stay over which is kind of okay, but, why not meet at Ceroc then follow me home? Yes, she is seriously fine to hang outside my house for maybe an hour to maximise every moment.

She also wants to come over at mine from Friday night through to Monday morning. I have a gym class I like on Friday evening and Sunday morning which is good for my bad back - an hour away max. Gf really not happy about this having a right go at me.

In the middle of woodland walk today she cries and says 'It is either me of the cat' as I cannnot spend more than 1 night away without cattery. We can meet up halfway within 30 mins drive but she is insistant we spend more time staying over at each others equally.

Also, I was at mum't for evening meal last night - wanted to walk over as 15 mins. Gf was fuming I did not drive to get another 10 mins with her.

Truly - is this bunny boiler stuff or I am unreasonable for wanting to go to 2 back friendly gym classes over 4 days?

She said with the Friday night bedroom excercise I should not be looking at any gym!

Chuck the bird and keep the cat.

[alreadypacked]

I seem to just attract decent sounding people who end up nutters!

Or you can't tell the difference.

HTH

[vetran]

You are making the classic mistake of fighting fire with fire. Try fighting it with water and use a bit of Dr EO's psychological warfare.

Invite gf around, strip her naked and get her on all fours.
Stick one end of a long feathered boa up her bum and then release a large mouse right in front of her. Tell her if she can catch it in under a minute and bite it to death, she wins and the cat goes.
Otherwise, stfu.

Classic, coffee keyboard interface moment.

Agree this one is a nutter, steer clear, I see your wardrobe becoming slightly less appealing with the scissor marks on it and you may end up with a Bobbit.

[norrahe]

Chuck the bird and keep the cat.

WMTTS and WZS

[sasguru]

I think Wilmslow will keep the girl for future dramatic oppos.

[Wilmslow]

I think Wilmslow will keep the girl for future dramatic oppos.

You are right - maybe I like a little drama in my life.

She wants a cosy coupledom weekend, but just invited my mates around to join us for Saturday night.

Let a fun weekend commence

[FiveTimes]

You are right - maybe I like a little drama in my life.

She wants a cosy coupledom weekend, but just invited my mates around to join us for Saturday night.

Let a fun weekend commence

she likes to share ?

[cojak]

Exactly. See the Monday morning post and my deep fried cat nightmare......

I am worried about her staying on Wednesday as will have to leave house without her on Thursday morning as I leave at 6am. Argh!!

This is not a match made in heaven.

You're really not very good at this dating lark, are you?