Breakdowns; heavy, man

[cailin maith]

jeepers

this is all a bit deep for cuk innit ?

what happened to the good old days of insults ?

Milan.

Read the Stag Party thread -

[snaw]

Read the Stag Party thread -

Indeed.

Feel free to contribute on the ongoing debate over whether or not a stag party is a time for reflection and 'finding yourself' or chaving it up by getting pished and watching some girls undress ....

[sasguru]

jeepers

this is all a bit deep for cuk innit ?

what happened to the good old days of insults ?

Milan.

Fark off, don't you have a tape to change?

[milanbenes]

sas,

less of it.

or I'll make read the Which Guide to Buying a Used Passat

ok folks, no worries, I'll come back here when I need the advice, off to the stag nite thread - toodle pip,

Milan.

[expat]

jeepers

this is all a bit deep for cuk innit ?

what happened to the good old days of insults ?

Milan.

Milan, go back to your cave.

[NotAllThere]

How did you deal with them NAT? Whate were the signs? Anything that you could have done to prevent either?

Depression was like a grey cloud of pain and misery. Couldn't be bothered with anything.

Breakdown is a huge dose of irrationality, fear, paranoia. Quite scary.

My wife helped me through, with some professional help. Going contracting was a plus too.

[Mich the Tester]

Very well summed up, I am also not ashamed to say it. I am not proud of what i did but feel that there is a way forward just depends on if my vision is shared by others.

Thank you all

Pleomax

Depression was like a grey cloud of pain and misery. Couldn't be bothered with anything.

Breakdown is a huge dose of irrationality, fear, paranoia. Quite scary.

My wife helped me through, with some professional help. Going contracting was a plus too.

Contracting is something I did as a result of regaining my self confidence. I’ll rephrase that; gaining real self confidence, based on experience and self knowledge instead of a big salary and a flash suit.

[Mich the Tester]

Come to think of it, I was a complete arsehole before my breakdown.

[NotAllThere]

Contracting is something I did as a result of regaining my self confidence. I’ll rephrase that; gaining real self confidence, based on experience and self knowledge instead of a big salary and a flash suit.

At the end of my first contract (and several renewals, fixing and enhancing a business critical system based on some very arcane software), the head of IT came along to my leaving do. His words of praise finally put to rest the abuse I'd received (and accepted!) as a permie working for local government. That and the tripling in income.

[milanbenes]

pokes head above the parapet....

NotAllThere,

'finally put to rest the abuse I'd received (and accepted!) as a permie ',


what kind of abuse and who from ?


Milan.