Originally posted by SussexSeagull
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On the subject of so-called "alpha" males... Recently I have caught up on the lives of various "alphas" I have known in the past but not kept up with. They have come back onto my radar through other friends invariably because of various forms of life meltdown they are encountering in their mid-life period - wives committing suicide, drinking themselves to death, that sort of thing. And then I suddenly realized how massively insecure all of them are. Just great big bags of attention seeking ego with little grit or substance. As a quiet and highly intelligent person myself, I have always disliked being talked over by such people. I work with one now, and whilst he thinks most magnificently of himself and certainly enjoys the sound of his own voice, he is a narcissist, very insecure, completely disorganized and full of tulipe. Its quite refreshing really, to gain this perspective on things. These days I just smile and laugh and fail to register 90% of the crap that comes out of their mouths.
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