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[cailin maith]

Not sure if it means something or not.

I know that if I was in that situation, I would want to be there as support. Not knowing what had happened, I would expect a partner to be there to help me through it.

BUT - since he's not met the family, maybe he was thinking that this wasn't the right time or place, and wasn't sure that he would be welcome as a potential "outsider". Maybe he wanted to offer, but didn't want to be "rejected".

I suppose....... I wouldn't have been mean to him or anything maybe just told him it wasn't appropriate for him to come home!

[TheFaQQer]

Ah Jaysus Ted - I want it to be ok.... I'm getting old now, I don't want to be doing the single thing forever but I'm also not just going to settle...

Ah sweetie - you're not getting old.

Just 'cos most people of your age are married, have a couple of kids, really settled down etc. etc. doesn't mean you'll be left on the shelf.

(JOKE!)

[DS23]

how old are you?

[TheFaQQer]

But every relationship has different drives, though I would have thought that at 6 months & outside marriage these would tend to be fairly high still.

I was 20 when I'd been with my (now) Mrs for 6 months. Drives then were pretty strong, but maybe when you get to a certain age they tail off a bit...

[DS23]

Who are you asking?

everybody who reads the question!

[Bear]

Ah Jaysus Ted - I want it to be ok.... I'm getting old now, I don't want to be doing the single thing forever but I'm also not just going to settle...

I have to be honest here - Whenever I've been (or known someone) in a situation where they have questions over whether this is 'the one' - then invariably they are not 'the one'.

The question wouldn't even raise itself.

You say you're getting older - then life is too short. Move on, the right one is out there (probably a bit further south and wearing a red jumpsuit )

[TheFaQQer]

I, on the other hand, am old & nearly shagged out... now where did I put those little blue pills?

I tried some of those once.

Made no difference whatsoever.

I was most disappointed - it meant that we had to finish after only three hours.

[Troll]

I have a (one of many) problem

[SallyAnne]

I know but like I said about husband - was with him for 11 years and still didn't know him. I loved him but at the end he just didn't love me back and now - I know I fon't want to get caught out like that again. I am "smitten" but don't know if thats going to lead to something else?

How come you didn't know him? Was he cheating like?

You can't let that scar you forever lass - pick up, move on, prepare to be trodden on again. You have to exposeyour heart in order to use it properly...there's always an element of risk involved in this.

[Bear]

Get ready Gentlemen!!

The Ladie's privilege is nearly upon us