Victimisation at work.

[BolshieBastard]

Surprised no one has asked here yet, but is your son the only person at the shop this hag tries to bully?

If there are others, I'd have thought that should make it easier to escalate.

Actually yes. All the other members of staff are female.

Obviously, I dont want to put all the facts on a forum since the original post was more of a commentary about victimisation still exists at work (did it ever go away?).

My lad is keen, ambitious. But he's also young and never come across this type of thing before. He's made excellent progress in the company with national recognition within it.

I've told him to make a record of every little thing (yes, he has an iphone) but its a busy work environment so he cant always do it there and then. I've been giving him my thoughts and advice but he's probably been thinking these things will blow over.

We arent talking off the record disciplinary stuff here. its full on official and its scary some of the tulip this woman is doing. If he gets booted or leaves, I've no doubt another existing member of staff will become the next target.

I've spoken to him today and said we need to sit down and determine what his approach is going to be as I think he's considering jacking it all in and going somewhere else (which he may have to do anyway but jobs in this area arent 10 a penny). I have no problem funding the cost of an employment law firm for him. Like lots of young people, he just thinks these type of things dont happen or there's little you can do.

I agree he has to fit back though, if only to teach this manager a few rules and regs.

[milanbenes]

nice one Bolshie

Milan.

[BolshieBastard]

Possibly a daft idea, but could the lad get in touch with his ex manager ? the one who rated him.
It sounds like he has a friend there who may be able to help and who may know the inside story

No not daft at all. Unfortunately he's not just left the company but also the country. He's contacting the regional manager (who's now in a different region) who he frequently met to seek his advice and help.

[BolshieBastard]

nice one Bolshie

Milan.

Look, Im fair game on a forum. But I dont appreciate flippant tulip where my kids are concerned.

[milanbenes]

eh

calm down

I simply agreed with everything you said

hence, the feedback, nice one

which I repeat,

nice one Bolshie

Milan.

[shaunbhoy]

I've been giving him my thoughts and advice

I think I can see the fly in the ointment here.

HTH

[milanbenes]

I think I can see the fly in the ointment here.

HTH

lol

alright Shaun how's it going i at Dirt Box Cottage ?

Milan.

[BolshieBastard]

I think I can see the fly in the ointment here.

HTH

Er, your 'non' contribution. I dont think you could find your arsehole in a dark room with a torch.

[shaunbhoy]

lol

alright Shaun how's it going i at Dirt Box Cottage ?

Milan.

Saving up to have my Thatch Ridge repaired. Plenty expensive too!!!

[shaunbhoy]

Er, your 'non' contribution. I dont think you could find your arsehole in a dark room with a torch.

I could probably find you, I'd just follow the bleating. And as you are such an arsehole, that blows your theory into the weeds too.