Male perspective required

[Churchill]

True, I've a couple of female frineds who're just great mates and nothing else.

Maybe in the mists of time, way back when there might have been a sexual connection - but now it'd be like shagging my sister.

Saying that I grew up in a family of women, so I've always been very comfortable in the company of women - even when they talk a load of bollocks, incessantly

How do you know?

[snaw]

How do you know?

I'm not gonna answer that on the grounds that any answer I give sounds well fcing dodgy.

[SallyAnne]

So you're a lesbian?

[AtW]

AtW's sole contribution to a thread about (potential) nookie.
I think this is one topic, AtW, that you REALLY know nothing about

Too busy finishing off VAT calculation now, it's a repayment back to HMRC...

[Pinto]

Too busy finishing off VAT calculation now, it's a repayment back to HMRC...

I hope you have higher sales than purchases.

[Pogle]

Too busy finishing off VAT calculation now, it's a repayment back to HMRC...

[sasguru]

Oh cojak - have you never heard of a charity shag?

AtW needs one. It'll be his first. Any volunteers?

[snaw]

AtW needs one. It'll be his first. Any volunteers?

You could dress up in a squirrel suit, make it an easier transition ...

[SallyAnne]

This "ex" stuff is interesting.

I wouldn't want to meet up with any of my ex's. I just have no interest in them at all - that's why they're ex's!

I wouldn't have a problem at all about my husband meeting up with his main ex (10 year relationship). I reckon anyone together that long has a bond that'll last a lifetime - like family. Although I'd have a problem with him seeking her out - it'd be ok if she contacted him, but not the other way round.

I'm generalising here, but I think if you meet up with an ex, it's because your present relationship isn't giving you something. It doesn't have to be sex, but it's definately something.

I reckon if my hubby's ex ever contacted him, it'd be because she was suddenly having pangs of "he got away" - whereas he would probably meet her, let her try her moves out, then tell her to gan get fu**ed.

[Churchill]

This "ex" stuff is interesting.

I wouldn't want to meet up with any of my ex's. I just have no interest in them at all - that's why they're ex's!

I wouldn't have a problem at all about my husband meeting up with his main ex (10 year relationship). I reckon anyone together that long has a bond that'll last a lifetime - like family. Although I'd have a problem with him seeking her out - it'd be ok if she contacted him, but not the other way round.

I'm generalising here, but I think if you meet up with an ex, it's because your present relationship isn't giving you something. It doesn't have to be sex, but it's definately something.

I reckon if my hubby's ex ever contacted him, it'd be because she was suddenly having pangs of "he got away" - whereas he would probably meet her, let her try her moves out, then tell her to gan get fu**ed.

Surely that's what she's after in the first place?