Male perspective required

[TimberWolf]

Exactly. You don't need to be direct. Offer her a cup of tea. If she says "Yes, I'd love one", you're in!

Do you wink at the same time?

[ThomasSoerensen]

You mean like when you take in your old shirts to Oxfam and you bend the old dear over the counter. Surely this is wrong?

[Pinto]

Do you wink at the same time?

I'm not sure. Pogle, did your friend wink at you when he invited you for a drink at his hotel?

[Pondlife]

Do you wink at the same time?

Surely it's rude to start without her. Or did you actually mean wink

[Pogle]

I'm not sure. Pogle, did your friend wink at you when he invited you for a drink at his hotel?

Nope - but as the evening did not end as he envisaged - he may have had a little wink to himself later

[TimberWolf]

Surely it's rude to start without her. Or did you actually mean wink

I meant: "Do you want to come back to my place for a cup of tea" <wink> How could she resist?

[Churchill]

Nope - but as the evening did not end as he envisaged - he may have had a little wink to himself later

Surely if he's an ex you must've known what he's like.

Pogle this has got to be a wind up. First the bad sex poll and now this.

[Pinto]

Nope - but as the evening did not end as he envisaged - he may have had a little wink to himself later

What about you? Did he make you feel desirable?

[Pogle]

Surely if he's an ex you must've known what he's like.

Pogle this has got to be a wind up. First the bad sex poll and now this.

You do me a disservice sir.

[Churchill]

You do me a disservice sir.

If that is truly the case then I apologise however if that apology remains unsatisfactory you are of course well within your rights to name a second and your weapon of choice!