Male perspective required

[Pogle]

I had 3 ex's at my wedding!
I am capable of having a friendship with someone once we've agreed that we're not compatable.
Mr P has no problem with that as he trusts me as I trust him.

[cojak]

I went out last week for a ‘farewell and thank-you’ meal with a trainer we’ve been using. I even offered to drive to the restaurant since I was ‘on duty’ – this was a continuation of business in my book.

A very pleasant and innocuous evening was coloured by his offer of “having a drink at the hotel bar – and you can use the spare bed in my room!”

I thanked him graciously for his offer then kicked him out the car – he walked the last half mile back to the hotel for his trouble…

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[snaw]

I went out last week for a ‘farewell and thank-you’ meal with a trainer we’ve been using. I even offered to drive to the restaurant since I was ‘on duty’ – this was a continuation of business in my book.

A very pleasant and innocuous evening was coloured by his offer of “having a drink at the hotel bar – and you can use the spare bed in my room!”

I thanked him graciously for his offer then kicked him out the car – he walked the last half mile back to the hotel for his trouble…

<strikes name off resource list...>

So you're a lesbian?

[AtW]

<strikes name off resource list...>

Also, avoid lolly-pops...

[Pogle]

So you're a lesbian?

[cailin maith]

I had 3 ex's at my wedding!
I am capable of having a friendship with someone once we've agreed that we're not compatable.
Mr P has no problem with that as he trusts me as I trust him.

I didn''t have 3 ex's before my wedding

It's not that I don't trust him or her (for that matter) but having been cheated on in the past I guess it's my own insecurities that would make me not like the situation.

Joking aside, I wouldn't stop him from meeting with his ex - how could I? However, I don't have to like it very much

[Pinto]

Mr P has no problem with that as he trusts me as I trust him.

So what did Mr P say, when you told him about last night?

[Bear]

Look, when I go out for a drink with an old friend for a bit of a gossip - thats EXACTLY what I expect

drink with bloke does not equal gossip

drink with bloke = small talk on the off chance of a shag!!

[Pogle]

So what did Mr P say, when you told him about last night?

You deserve a night out - have a good time.

[cojak]

So you're a lesbian?

No - choosy.