How Married are you ?

[SallyAnne]

Women cheat too you know..

Ahhhh - good for you

[denver2k]

Women cheat too you know..

Good to be confessed.

I wonder if someone can start a poll about Who has cheated his/her spouse? who has been cheated ?who is planning to cheat?who is not good enough to even cheat? Who is sick of been cheated? Who has been cheating and yet not been caught and living happily ?

Something like that

[Rookie]

Good to be confessed.

I wonder if someone can start a poll about Who has cheated his/her spouse? who has been cheated ?who is planning to cheat?who is not good enough to even cheat? Who is sick of been cheated? Who has been cheating and yet not been caught and living happily ?

Something like that

bean cheated? Yes, so fecked off with that. Fed up of always finding 525 beans as opposed to the standard 550 in my tin of Heinz. Don't get me started on those damn spaghetti hoops....

[NotAllThere]

Lots of arguments isn't an issue so long as

a) Plenty of making up afterwards
b) The arguments aren't always the same ones

If you're always arguing about the same issues, get marriage guidance or therapy...

[Incognito]

Lots of arguments isn't an issue so long as

a) Plenty of making up afterwards
b) The arguments aren't always the same ones

If you're always arguing about the same issues, get marriage guidance or therapy...

Makey up sex. Brilliant

[lilelvis2000]

There is a fit young bird wearing a low cut dress in the high-street doing surveys here. Was I wrong to ogle?

[Rookie]

There is a fit young bird wearing a low cut dress in the high-street doing surveys here. Was I wrong to ogle?

Only if she saw you.

[EternalOptimist]

Makey up sex. Brilliant

On contract with permy working for IBM. He was a London lad, absolutely salt of the earth, one of the soundest and nicest guys I ever knew.
One day he confides in me and asks me if I ever had any marital problems. He told me that he had just had a very rough patch and that he had nearly got divorced. Part of the marriage guidance had been for him to do something special, once a day, just for her. It only had to take ten minutes, but was to be 'just for her'

So he went through the options and decide to make her a cocktail, once a day, for when she got home from work. It worked a treat.


So that got me thinking, 'why wait for the rocky patch, why not get in first.'
I emptied out our cabinet and started buying a bottle a week, scotch, rum, vodka, malibu,baileys - you name it. Then the mixers, glasses, a silver shaker.

a dickie bow.

I made some laminated menus.

trust me guys - it works. I spend half of each morning pulling the bed sheet out of my @rse

[BlasterBates]

If you have a problem I found the thing to do is simply ignore them, works every time, eventually they disappear and leave you alone.

[thelace]

What's the main fight?

She had a hysterectomy 6 years ago, which mean her hormones are unballanced. I know this and make allowances. But certainly for the last 3 years, she's been filled with anger most of the time.

I can never do enough for her. I cook 2 - 3 times a week, keep on top of the washing, stack the dishwasher, often do the ironing, keeping on top of the DIY, etc, etc....

The kids can never do enough (they're teenegers for goodness sake, their rooms aren't likely to look like a showhouse). They are pretty good kids (not perfect, but who'd want them to be?), and they never bring mates home unless mummy is grumpy

I've suggested relate, but she says there's nothing wrong, she's happy....

She's stormed out of the house 3 times recently "I'm the only one who does anything in this house, nobody helps me" sort of thing. I've started thinking "well don't come back then"! This is not healthy in a marriage.

I'm currently only staying there for the kids, but I'm not sure it does them any good to see their parents arguing all the time!