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Well, whatever the rights and wrongs, I'm glad I had a mum and dad, and not a dad and dad. Or mum and mum.
Plus, the facts of life were much easier to understand too. Having two dads during that phase would have been mind-blowing.
You're glad because that's your experience. I too find it difficul to imagine having two parents of the same sex, but that doesn't mean I can pretend to know what's good for someone else because I haven't had their experience.
And what exactly is wrong with an "ad hominem" argument? Dodgy Agent, 16-5-2014
You're glad because that's your experience. I too find it difficul to imagine having two parents of the same sex, but that doesn't mean I can pretend to know what's good for someone else because I haven't had their experience.
Are you saying you cannot know what is good for anybody whose life you have not experienced?
Are you saying you cannot know what is good for anybody whose life you have not experienced?
NO, I just don't think it's all that easy to judge whether a child who grows up with two same sex parents is going to be any more or less confused than a child with a mother and father; it's too easy to just judge from one's own experience instead of researching and gathering evidence.
And what exactly is wrong with an "ad hominem" argument? Dodgy Agent, 16-5-2014
Ok lets say my wife died (god forbid) and my brother moved in to help me raise the kids - you could in essence have 2 'dads' (or two male influences) no major female ones - so what the kids will turn out all freaky.
The argument seems to be that 2 men (or two women) could not raise a well balanced child
Does this argument hold water - does it also mean that single mums and dads cannot raise children properly as there is no balanced influence.
Admittedly single mums do get a lot of stick but then when you look at the pointless slappers who have managed to have 5 kids from 4 different fathers you need to understand that they have kids for the money involved and not becuase they want children to love and bring up
I think as long as the child is loved, cared for and wanted they will always get a balanced upbringing as this is what caring parents give.
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