What to get BF for his birthday

[BrilloPad]

Ok, life's a gamble. Don't let the risk of losing stop you from trying!

I tend to put myself in situations where the risk is lower - where possible. I would actually love to get re-married - I have a great partner and we have a child. Without her I would not have survived the divorce - suicide was a strong option. I joined the british euthanasia society and found out how - I even bought the drugs. I then realized it would be a senseless waste of life and I should take as many as possible out with me. A combination of Matt O'Connor and my partner changed that.

But the game is stacked in favour of women - massively. The only way to resolve this is for men to grow up (unlikely) or to refuse to get married/have children.

[Churchill]

I tend to put myself in situations where the risk is lower - where possible. I would actually love to get re-married - I have a great partner and we have a child. Without her I would not have survived the divorce - suicide was a strong option. I joined the british euthanasia society and found out how - I even bought the drugs. I then realized it would be a senseless waste of life and I should take as many as possible out with me. A combination of Matt O'Connor and my partner changed that.

But the game is stacked in favour of women - massively. The only way to resolve this is for men to grow up (unlikely) or to refuse to get married/have children.

You think too much!

[BrilloPad]

You think too much!

That is true. But at least I learnt from my mistake.

Well that is partially true. I told the gf halfway through our first date that I would never remarry and never have more children.

[Churchill]

That is true. But at least I learnt from my mistake.

Well that is partially true. I told the gf halfway through our first date that I would never remarry and never have more children.

Ah well, you go your way etc.

I don't think it's exactly cricket to try and foist your experience on everyone else though, it just makes you look like a bitter and twisted old twat.

[BrilloPad]

Ah well, you go your way etc.

I don't think it's exactly cricket to try and foist your experience on everyone else though, it just makes you look like a bitter and twisted old twat.

You make it sound like my divorce experience was unique.

I actually came off very well - I may have lost all my money but at least I see my kids. 4 days a week! I know alot of men who have a court order against them applying for court orders to see their kids.

Some may disagree with your opinion of me (particularly those who I have helped - including several PMs to those on this board). But even if you are right I dont care.

Most men get a severe kicking upon divorce/seperation - then crawl under a stone. They dont help other men. On the other hand women communicate better and help each other. We stand no chance.

All your attitude does is perpetuate the misery. Bury your head in the sand if you like. But I will not.

[Churchill]

You make it sound like my divorce experience was unique.

I actually came off very well - I may have lost all my money but at least I see my kids. 4 days a week! I know alot of men who have a court order against them applying for court orders to see their kids.

Some may disagree with your opinion of me (particularly those who I have helped - including several PMs to those on this board). But even if you are right I dont care.

Most men get a severe kicking upon divorce/seperation - then crawl under a stone. They dont help other men. On the other hand women communicate better and help each other. We stand no chance.

All your attitude does is perpetuate the misery. Bury your head in the sand if you like. But I will not.

There are plenty of men and women who've gone through a divorce (myself included) without the problems that you mention.

As for my attitude, what the **** has my attitude got to do with things?

You had a crap time with your divorce, look how it's screwed you up!

[Moscow Mule]

He doesn't like lingerie, beer or oral sex!

He sounds a bit metrosexual. Perhaps a visit to the Refinery?

[Churchill]

He doesn't like lingerie, beer or oral sex!

He's not a pilot then?

[BrilloPad]

There are plenty of men and women who've gone through a divorce (myself included) without the problems that you mention.

As for my attitude, what the **** has my attitude got to do with things?

You had a crap time with your divorce, look how it's screwed you up!

And there are plenty who have had alot of problems. And I am not going there again. Obviously you can do what you want with your life. I am sure you dont care what I think about what you do.

I mentioned the attitude thing in my last post.

Things will get better for me with time. I left f4j nearly a year ago - I am alot better than I was! The easy way out would have been to not see the kids again (I did not see them for 6 months). I would rather have been screwed up and see the kids than not see them and be "normal".

[tay]

The truth is probably that Lucy has crap tatse in Lingerie and gives rubbish blowjobs. So its not so much he doesnt ike lingerie and bj's, he just doesnt like Lucy's lingerie or bj's. Get him a new gf, his current one is crap.