Another what would you do ?

[SallyAnne]

So when/if you have a child and that child is doing Cocaine or Heroin, are you just going to laugh and say carry on, it's no big deal ?

All Drug Dealers and Pedophiles should have their throats cut (slowly)

God no, Diver heroin is completely different!!! Jesus, if I knew a kid was even thinking about Heroin, I'd be banging on their parents front door with the school, the police, Cliff Richard, a token memeber of their favourite boy band anda member of the press! Seriously, heroin is an absolute no no!! I'd NEVER touch it, and I'd chops someones hands off before lettin them near it.

Coke though, it's different! Are we getting our wires crossed? Do you think I mean crack coccaine? I dont. Massively massively different to coke.

The coke you get on the streets is weak as p*ss and only a tiny bit different to speed (except its nicer). I personaly think weed is stronger. I actually think Whiskey is stronger.
Coke only gives you a high for about 10 minutes really (although yes, it's quite moreish...the same as drink, you want another). E's and acid will knack/amaze you all night, but coke is a quick hit...a buzz. Thats all. It's a party drug, and should be treated as such. Kids who use coke correctly are those who have a bit maybe once every couple of months...on special occassions. If they're not using it correctly, it's cause of (sorry Diver, I dont mean this directed at you) but people like you lot on here who are already freaking out at the sound of it! Kids need to be told in an informed way what each drug does, what the pro's and cons are, how to use it correctly, what can go wrong etc etc. Just like Gonzo said basically.

[Lockhouse]

My 2p worth

She's only doing what most 17 year olds have done for years, just because someone takes a bit of coke doesn't mean they are going to end up in hell penniless and syphilitic.

As someone as a parent who has experienced the growing up and excesses of a 20, 18 and a 13 year old and has been in exactly this situation (unlike a lot of the other people posting) I totally agree with this response. Stay out if it. If they are the type that are going to take it further nothing you can do will help, on the other hand if they are of the 99.9% who take drugs as a phase and move on then leave well alone. You're not their mum and it's quite possible that a) her mum knows anyway and b) she's in denial. Worms, can of. Overreaction, total.

[NotAllThere]

The argument about the support of murderous cartels is quite persuasive. Perhaps if it can be proved that cocaine manufacture causes global warming, or kills fluffy bunnies, the argument could be conclusive.

[ASB]

The coke you get on the streets is weak as p*ss

That may be true in general. However it does depend on suppliers and location of course. Up the road is Bristol they frequently get much less cut coke as new supply channels appear. This usually happens once or twice every couple of years. It usually kills somebody before the drug squad are issuing the warnings.

[chef]

well it seems to me there are a few types of people with opinions on here, those that have never been in the drugs scene and therefore think all drugs are terrible, call the police, tell the teacher oh lordy lordy the terrible thing must be rid from our midst... there are also those that have been in or around the drugs scene in their past and therefore may seem extremely liberal about the whole idea..

i personally would say im with the likes of bored, alf w and SA.. i've been around those that take drugs and have occaisionally dabbled myself.. coke is not as bad as it sounds, as SA points out its not crack and as everyone seems to agree if it was heroin then thats a whole different ball game.

I would say that yes, sometimes, it is the start of a slippery slope, however, if the child is intelligent (like your daughter seems by raising it with you in the first place) then be supportive of your child and tell her she can come talk to you anytime if she needs help/advice but you wont betray her trust by "going to the authorities".. if you do and your daughter feels any repurcussion that'll be the last thing she tells you in confidence. you cant stop your children in being curious and making mistakes but you can be supportive of their decisions and by keeping there trust you'll be a lot better informed.

Chef

p.s I dont have kids but write simply from the point of view i had as a child when around that scene.. yes i grew out of it but i am also still good friends with many of those that arent, some are fine, others not so strong willed and are not.

[wendigo100]

Shock horror - teenagers take cheap drugs!!!

Oh my god, they'll be having sex before marriage next!!


Sandy, Coke is no big deal, it really isn't. Just let this other lass get on with it. It's none of your business what she gets up to anyway - and you going to the school or her parents will really stitch your daughter up, aswell as this lass.

Most kids do it, most of them are fine. Much like drinking.

Three local teenagers have died from drug overdoses in the past year. I know the parents of two. They would be horrified and disgusted to hear that comment, as am I.

So when/if you have a child and that child is doing Cocaine or Heroin, are you just going to laugh and say carry on, it's no big deal ?

All Drug Dealers <snip - OT> should have their throats cut (slowly)

Some people make taking drugs sound like a walk in the park. Luckily my kids get better counsel.

[oracleslave]

Some people make taking drugs sound like a walk in the park. Luckily my kids get better counsel.

Agreed.

[Lockhouse]

Some people make taking drugs sound like a walk in the park. Luckily my kids get better counsel.

Ah yes, but you miss the point - in this instance it's not their own kids...hence the original problem.

[BlasterBates]

If she's into drugs then disassociating is fine, there should be no guilt. I would tell her parents that you suspect she might taking coke. You don't have to tell her that's what your daughter said. Giving them a tip is enough. You've done your duty. If her parents go spare, that's fine, no sympathy.

This isn't your problem, she and her parents have to sort this out. Protect your daughter, if your daughter is unhappy, that's good. A friend on drugs isn't worth it.

[SallyAnne]

If she's into drugs then disassociating is fine, there should be no guilt. I would tell her parents that you suspect she might taking coke. You don't have to tell her that's what your daughter said. Giving them a tip is enough. You've done your duty. If her parents go spare, that's fine, no sympathy.

This isn't your problem, she and her parents have to sort this out. Protect your daughter, if your daughter is unhappy, that's good. A friend on drugs isn't worth it.

We're obviously split into 2 very different camps here, and we'll probably never agree.

Someone who takes coke occassionaly...even once a week...shouldn't be described as being "on drugs". That's like calling a weekend drinker an alcoholic. It's very unfair, completely untrue, and a clear sign of your own nievity and lack of understanding in this area.