Divorce

[Moscow Mule]

That's what Ian Beale did in Eastenders when he was getting divorced.

[SallyAnne]

Theres also the chance of course, that you are completely over reacting?

Couldn't you just try talking to your wife about whatever it was you found out? or is that a bit too "outside the box"?

[FiveTimes]

You mention that she is bleeding you dry and demanding money.. I always thought that was her prerogative and the nature of the beast....

Sounds like the phrase happily married is quite rare on this board...

[Old Greg]

or is that a bit too "outside the box"?

You know the penalty for using that kind of language.

Hmmm - the spanking has gone awry.

[tay]

Maybe I should start giving out Marriage Guidance.

[alreadypacked]

Maybe I should start giving out Marriage Guidance.

Tonight - Sit on couch and watch TV (wife will deliever food to me)

Sat - Sit on couch and watch TV, maybe play a computer game for an hour or so wife will deliver food and beer to me.

Sunday - Play tennis in the morning( dont want to be lazy afterall) Then I will sit on the couch and watch TV .... wife will deliver food and beer to me.

Maybe not

[tay]

Oi! I am still married!.. and we are very happy. If people listen to my advice they would be a lot more chilled out. Look at SA ... little stressed ginger that she is.

[BA to the Stars]

Can be done in about 6 months (speaking from my own experience).

If it can be done without contesting (after all, what is the point contesting it, it won't make the other half stay - in my case the ex had an affair and then divorced me on grounds of unreasonable behaviour because I didn't like her keeping in touch with the guy she had the affair with. My solicitors advice was you can contest and issue divorce against her for adultery. I asked what difference it would make and he said apart from an increase in his fees, none whatsoever, it wouldn't save the marraige and anyway no-one outside the court officially gets to see the petition anyway, it may give one a warm glow but what is the point, it still didn't stop her moving in with him)

As for unemployed - you are employed by your limited company - the limited company is receiving income from the contract that you or anyone else that your company has put forward are engaged on so you are OK to keep current contract. Your income is not directly from the contract but from any salary and dividends that your comapany i.e. your employer pays you.

You can remove her from her post as secretary. You could also buy her shares from her (you say that she has 2, how many do you have)? I would also set up a new limited company and advise the agency that all payments must be made to the new company and gradually run down the balance in the existing company so that her shares are in a company with no assets.

It will be a roller coaster and is a bad time but trust me, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel and you will come out stronger.

Good luck

[Cooperinliverp00l]

Oi! I am still married!.. and we are very happy. If people listen to my advice they would be a lot more chilled out. Look at SA ... little stressed ginger that she is.

I just got married and am still happy in love...

[alreadypacked]

Oi! I am still married!.. and we are very happy. If people listen to my advice they would be a lot more chilled out. Look at SA ... little stressed ginger that she is.

How chilled out is your wife then.
Well she always knows where to find you