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Originally posted by Zigenare View PostIt wasn't so difficult to assertain before the latest crop of fannies (physical and metaphorical) joined the forum.
On here I think most people are ok having the P taken out of them, but even so, being 'creepy', or a little 'ist or 'bic will still offend.
General broad brush jokes at the expense of a group is usually fine I would think.
So, for e.g. joking that the dutch must have sore feet due to their wooden footware is fine, but accusing someone on here of being connected to a genocide carried out by their home country historically is probably not great. As that just feels xenophobic
I'm a great believer that you shouldn't say on here what you would not be prepared to say to someone's face if you met them down the pub. Think, if you have to justify it by saying, but hey, if they kick off I'm 6'2" and 200 pounds so can look after myself, then you probably know what you're saying is going to offend so maybe you shouldn't be saying it.
I know, I know ... I'm a twunt ... I'll get my coat nowI am what I drink, and I'm a bitter manComment
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Originally posted by Zigenare View PostBehold an example of the latter, desperate to be accepted, yet easily proven to be a humourless buffoon.I am what I drink, and I'm a bitter manComment
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Originally posted by Whorty View PostIn modern society, attacking a specific person that can be construed as <fill in gap>bic/ist is generally not accepted these days unless you know the person well and they know you are joking (rather than being <fill in gap>bic/ist but trying to hide behind a joke)
On here I think most people are ok having the P taken out of them, but even so, being 'creepy', or a little 'ist or 'bic will still offend.
General broad brush jokes at the expense of a group is usually fine I would think.
So, for e.g. joking that the dutch must have sore feet due to their wooden footware is fine, but accusing someone on here of being connected to a genocide carried out by their home country historically is probably not great. As that just feels xenophobic
I'm a great believer that you shouldn't say on here what you would not be prepared to say to someone's face if you met them down the pub. Think, if you have to justify it by saying, but hey, if they kick off I'm 6'2" and 200 pounds so can look after myself, then you probably know what you're saying is going to offend so maybe you shouldn't be saying it.
I know, I know ... I'm a twunt ... I'll get my coat nowLast edited by Zigenare; 4 December 2019, 16:15.Old Greg - In search of acceptance since Mar 2007. Hoping each leap will be his last.Comment
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This one is a bit of a minefield. I had a recent experience where I asked someone at work out for a coffee. She said yes, then flaked. Then when I next saw her she mentioned that we were still due to go out - then flaked again - then did the same thing again for a 3rd time...
I think I am supposed to persist but at the same time I don't want to 'chase' her. Either that or she's just stringing me along for validation. Either way, I enjoy talking to her and all the other women in the office.
I love women... a lot... Being able to express that in a direct, matter of fact, non-creepy, non-threatening way without any need to do something about it is something I aspire to do to more of. Kind of like walking through a flower garden and appreciating the flowers without needing to pick any of them and 'have' them.
IMO being creepy is an inability to directly communicate your intentions and pretend you're not interested when it's obvious you are. Trying to get something through some form of trickery and deception or some kind of ' transaction'.
Work is a tricky one as is any situation where the attractive women want to be noticed but not hit on."Is someone you don't like allowed to say something you don't like? If that is the case then we have free speech."- Elon MuskComment
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Originally posted by Zigenare View PostNothing wrong with the occasional test flight my old friend.
Btw, Bazza says Hi!
Hope the string vests are holding up well.When the fun stops, STOP.Comment
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Originally posted by Jog On View PostWork is a tricky one as is any situation where the attractive women want to be noticed but not hit on.
Step 1) Let her know that you're a little bit crazy by confronting the office alphas over something trivial.
Step 2) Use your charm and wit to make her laugh.
Step 3) Show her that you also have a serious and sensitive side
Step 4) Appear unobtainable
I'm still waiting for LM to PM me...Comment
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Originally posted by Zigenare View PostYou're a shortarse. I'm half a foot taller than you and that's without my stiletos - leave your billy-big-bollocks persona at home mate, you're not impressing anyone.Comment
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Originally posted by mb31 View PostJog on, the solution is to wait for the attractive women to hit on you.
Step 1) Let her know that you're a little bit crazy by confronting the office alphas over something trivial.
Step 2) Use your charm and wit to make her laugh.
Step 3) Show her that you also have a serious and sensitive side
Step 4) Appear unobtainable
I'm still waiting for LM to PM me...Comment
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Originally posted by mb31 View PostJog on, the solution is to wait for the attractive women to hit on you.
Step 1) Just sit there and lick your own earlobes. She'll be over soon enough.
I'm still waiting for LM to PM me...
P.S. Keep waiting ducky.The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world that he didn't existComment
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