Ok girls what's the best way to dump a girl. I've been seeing a german girl for for a few months and at Xmas she came over to stay for six days. I was glad to see the back of her. She's a nice girl and all that but not for me, how do I do it without hurting her too much, bearing in mind that after her last relationship she went into drepression and didn't go out with another man for 3 years until moi. She's a bit to keen and has told her best friend that 'I'm the one' , after two failed amrriages I know I'm not the one.
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Just tell her.... auf wiedersen!Originally posted by GibbonOk girls what's the best way to dump a girl. I've been seeing a german girl for for a few months and at Xmas she came over to stay for six days. I was glad to see the back of her. She's a nice girl and all that but not for me, how do I do it without hurting her too much, bearing in mind that after her last relationship she went into drepression and didn't go out with another man for 3 years until moi. She's a bit to keen and has told her best friend that 'I'm the one' , after two failed amrriages I know I'm not the one.I've seen much of the rest of the world. It is brutal and cruel and dark, Rome is the light.Comment
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Originally posted by GibbonOk girls what's the best way to dump a girl. I've been seeing a german girl for for a few months and at Xmas she came over to stay for six days. I was glad to see the back of her. She's a nice girl and all that but not for me, how do I do it without hurting her too much, bearing in mind that after her last relationship she went into drepression and didn't go out with another man for 3 years until moi. She's a bit to keen and has told her best friend that 'I'm the one' , after two failed amrriages I know I'm not the one.
You've only been seeing her for 3 months. DO NOT feel emotionally responsible for her. If she goes into depression, it's because she has a mental illness, NOT because you dumped her. That is NOT your fault, and it shouldn't be your concern either Gibbon.
Theres no right way to dump someone - its always going to be horrible unless yous both want out.
So just tell her straight - quick and hopefully painless. Xmas made you realise you dont love her, etc.
If you'd rather lie, then tell her you've met someone else, or an ex has come back on the scene.
Either way, dont show weakness. Be firm. And get off the phone as quickly as possible.The pope is a tard.Comment
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pet....Originally posted by FranckoJust tell her.... auf wiedersen!SA says;
Well you looked so stylish I thought you batted for the other camp - thats like the ultimate compliment!
I couldn't imagine you ever having a hair out of place!
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You got a p.s. for us there POW?Originally posted by PerlOfWisdomWelcome to Dumpsville, population you.
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Just make sure you sh*ag her before you tell her... like a parting giftOriginally posted by SallyAnneYou've only been seeing her for 3 months. DO NOT feel emotionally responsible for her. If she goes into depression, it's because she has a mental illness, NOT because you dumped her. That is NOT your fault, and it shouldn't be your concern either Gibbon.
Theres no right way to dump someone - its always going to be horrible unless yous both want out.
So just tell her straight - quick and hopefully painless. Xmas made you realise you dont love her, etc.
If you'd rather lie, then tell her you've met someone else, or an ex has come back on the scene.
Either way, dont show weakness. Be firm. And get off the phone as quickly as possible.How fortunate for governments that the people they administer don't thinkComment
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...or suggest a 3 some - & use it as an excuse if she says noHow fortunate for governments that the people they administer don't thinkComment
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