Child Maintenance threshold?

[gts]

OK, to answer your question, don't take more than £15,310 from your business.

Thanks for this, sincerely, though now I'm not sure if I'm the one being baited

[Bean]

Do you *seriously* believe I wasn't aware of this reaction this would provoke even before I began to type this ? This isn't the first time I've asked a question along these lines (and yes I got a similar overall reaction to the one here), but it is the first time I've asked this particular forum. Also it's not nice to ridicule those with autism/aspergers (or for that matter anything immutable about a person), I've met many such people in my career (for obvious reasons, IT work does attract this type of person) and they are the most amazing and beautiful people I've met in my life.

I'm not ridiculing it, I genuinely thought you suffered, given the tripe you've posted.

Now you say you expected it? Then why so defensive/aggressive towards those with a 'normal' response to your question?

Muppet

[vetran]

Do you *seriously* believe I wasn't aware of this reaction this would provoke even before I began to type this ? This isn't the first time I've asked a question along these lines (and yes I got a similar overall reaction to the one here), but it is the first time I've asked this particular forum. Also it's not nice to ridicule those with autism/aspergers (or for that matter anything immutable about a person), I've met many such people in my career (for obvious reasons, IT work does attract this type of person) and they are the most amazing and beautiful people I've met in my life.

what do they say about you being a scheming little chunt? - you can change that part

[gts]

I'm not ridiculing it, I genuinely thought you suffered, given the tripe you've posted.

Now you say you expected it? Then why so defensive/aggressive towards those with a 'normal' response to your question?

Muppet

Can't I have a little fun? I mostly go on US-based forums for work-related stuff and rarely get to engage in such amusing bants as these.

[Zigenare]

Do you *seriously* believe I wasn't aware of this reaction this would provoke even before I began to type this ? This isn't the first time I've asked a question along these lines (and yes I got a similar overall reaction to the one here), but it is the first time I've asked this particular forum. Also it's not nice to ridicule those with autism/aspergers (or for that matter anything immutable about a person), I've met many such people in my career (for obvious reasons, IT work does attract this type of person) and they are the most amazing and beautiful people I've met in my life.

That's nice. Anyway, you've got your answer.

Does your Mrs know you're about to do a runner or are you going to slip quietly into the night and leave it as a surprise?

[vwdan]

That's nice. Anyway, you've got your answer.

Does your Mrs know you're about to do a runner or are you going to slip quietly into the night and leave it as a surprise?

I suspect she wakes up every morning praying that today is the today he doesn't come home from work.

[vetran]

That's nice. Anyway, you've got your answer.

Does your Mrs know you're about to do a runner or are you going to slip quietly into the night and leave it as a reason for her to really celebrate?

FTFY



By the way please tell her the Rugby team will be round on Tuesday for a bit of "scrum action" as usual . Thursday we will bring Bucephalus round when she has recovered.

[gts]

That's nice. Anyway, you've got your answer.

Does your Mrs know you're about to do a runner or are you going to slip quietly into the night and leave it as a surprise?

It all ended years ago. The Child Maintenance part is a recent development though.

Since this thread has caused the expected controversy and I haven't really said what I think about it (and I know it will get equally vitriolic responses to the ones earlier though hopefully we can start to wind this down):

1. Women in the current political climate are given pretty much every conceivable tool by the state to beat the crap out of men with, financially, legally or otherwise. So I have scant pity for either the state or the woman involved.

2. The Child Maintenance Service are absolutely prepared to use dirty tricks and I have already experienced this which put me on guard early on, and I think others have also noted this much in the thread. Somehow though, it's bad to use dirty tricks in kind to protect my own ass.

3. I really hoped that in 2018 more so-called "men" were aware of how deep the rabbit-hole goes in terms of women being enabled by the state to either destroy their family or to use it to persecute (yes, I'd class it as persecution given how frequently it is happening) a man who has spurned them. I'm not saying I expected sympathy, I just hoped more of us realised that *maybe* there's something wrong with the so-called family "justice" system right now. I know it's possible that many who are aware have just kept silent, and to be honest you can hardly blame them considering the reaction I got. It seems the white knight/simps/cuck (the 2018 version of cuck) biology is too strong to overcome in most guys.

4. As for the children, many have speculated that I just don't care, all I will say is read between the lines.

5. Ultimately I know from personal experience and from the experience of many, many other men in the same position that the money clawed from me through the CMS is really not going to be spent on my children, but rather on Loubotins (or whatever they're called), handbags, meals at expensive restaurants and holidays. Tell me, fellow men, doesn't it make a ton more ******.g sense to hold onto as much as I can and spend it on my children directly?

[Zigenare]

It all ended years ago. The Child Maintenance part is a recent development though.

Since this thread has caused the expected controversy and I haven't really said what I think about it (and I know it will get equally vitriolic responses to the ones earlier though hopefully we can start to wind this down):

1. Women in the current political climate are given pretty much every conceivable tool by the state to beat the crap out of men with, financially, legally or otherwise. So I have scant pity for either the state or the woman involved.

2. The Child Maintenance Service are absolutely prepared to use dirty tricks and I have already experienced this which put me on guard early on, and I think others have also noted this much in the thread. Somehow though, it's bad to use dirty tricks in kind to protect my own ass.

3. I really hoped that in 2018 more so-called "men" were aware of how deep the rabbit-hole goes in terms of women being enabled by the state to either destroy their family or to use it to persecute (yes, I'd class it as persecution given how frequently it is happening) a man who has spurned them. I'm not saying I expected sympathy, I just hoped more of us realised that *maybe* there's something wrong with the so-called family "justice" system right now. I know it's possible that many who are aware have just kept silent, and to be honest you can hardly blame them considering the reaction I got. It seems the white knight/simps/cuck (the 2018 version of cuck) biology is too strong to overcome in most guys.

4. As for the children, many have speculated that I just don't care, all I will say is read between the lines.

5. Ultimately I know from personal experience and from the experience of many, many other men in the same position that the money clawed from me through the CMS is really not going to be spent on my children, but rather on Loubotins (or whatever they're called), handbags, meals at expensive restaurants and holidays. Tell me, fellow men, doesn't it make a ton more ******.g sense to hold onto as much as I can and spend it on my children directly?

FFS nobody asked for your life story. You're whinging like a little bitch!

[NotAllThere]

Oh not at all, this place is relatively tame compared to other places I frequent, though in it's defence I was a little surprised I didn't get an outright ban, other forums are way more thinskinned (though it would be futile as I'm very good at ban evading)...

Ooo. A challenge.

Why doyou think the Physic's Usenet classic insult is anti-semitic. And why do you think that saying so would be "bait".