When your wife wants a divorce, give her everything she wants

[MicrosoftBob]

There is no price I wouldn't pay to have access to my son

So you'd put a hit on your ex then

[Magpie252]

So you'd put a hit on your ex then

I might have thought about it

But it’s about the physical & mental wellbeing of your kids, I’m not sure having his mother bumped off fits in with that requirement

[MicrosoftBob]

There is no price I wouldn't pay to have access to my son

I might have thought about it

But it’s about the physical & mental wellbeing of your kids, I’m not sure having his mother bumped off fits in with that requirement

So you agree that the kids well being is more important than seeing your kids whatever the cost, nice to see you agree with me at last


Somewhere along the line if your ex refuses to let you see your kids, you have to decide there is a point in which you wouldn't see your kids as you've just proved

[MaryPoppins]

So
Somewhere along the line if your ex refuses to let you see your kids, you have to decide there is a point in which you wouldn't see your kids as you've just proved

That's easier to understand, and a point I can agree with to a degree.

[MicrosoftBob]

That's easier to understand, and a point I can agree with to a degree.

In short first she refused, then I got the legal system involved

I'd turn up at the designated day and time and she'd be gone, I then tried to turning up unannounced only to see my children dragged away from the front door screaming they wanted to see me

When someone is more concerned with trying to hurt you than the well being of their own children, you're only going to hurt your own children by fighting them

[MaryPoppins]

In short first she refused, then I got the legal system involved

I'd turn up at the designated day and time and she'd be gone, I then tried to turning up unannounced only to see my children dragged away from the front door screaming they wanted to see me

When someone is more concerned with trying to hurt you than the well being of their own children, you're only going to hurt your own children by fighting them

I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that. Have a

[MicrosoftBob]

I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that. Have a

There's always a positive, I wouldn't have adopted so many cats were it not for my divorce

[NotAllThere]

Is there are definite cause and effect here?

Only thing I am pleased about from my marriages is the kids.

You obviously are a big fan of marriage, even so. (Or wouldn't have done it so many times)

[vetran]

There's always a positive, I wouldn't have adopted so many cats were it not for my divorce

You are Norrahe and I claim my 5 pouches of Ceasar

[d000hg]

To see your children isn't worth fighting over?
They are probably better off not seeing you if this is your attitude.

Fighting over your kids can be very harmful to them. You should be doing what's best for them, not selfishly trying to "win" them.