Originally posted by DonkeyRhubarb
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Truthfully, I'm glad for you - I would never wish the stress and anguish going through this on anyone, even you guys.
Yes in retrospect if I knew then what I knew now it would be a different story, if I was a little less foolish I would not be in this situation - I challenge anyone here to hold their hands up and say they have not done something in the past that they wish they had not?
What is overlooked is the outcome doesn't just damage the people who participated, when I was involved I was younger and single with nobody relying on me.
Now I have 2 lovely children under 5, neither of which have done anything wrong apart from having a father who many many years ago looks like he made a big mistake albeit unwittingly. They are the ones who will suffer the most, who alongside me and my wife will lose their family home, their stability, have parents who cannot give their full attention as they are swimming in debt and stress. Is the "crime" (yet to be proved) so hideous, so detrimental to society and those who are caught up in this so beyond redemption not only do we (and our families) deserve to be punished, but to be punished before we are even proved to have done something wrong?
So again, for those NOT caught up on this - I'm genuinely happy for you, that you and your families aren't suffering like me and my family is, and I would not wish ANYONE not even my worst enemy to go through this.
For all those who are going through this, hang in there....
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