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Previously on "Young 'cannot cope with daily life'"

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  • d000hg
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    Originally posted by northernladuk View Post
    When there are schools out there that have over 31 different languages/dialects in them actually understanding you are about to be stabbed maybe a challenge!!
    Just think how good an opportunity such schools present for becoming multilingual... the best way to learn languages is through immersion. So modern inner-city schools teach languages AND self-defense!

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  • northernladuk
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    Originally posted by d000hg View Post
    Which schools are these, I thought kids had to be tough to avoid getting stabbed by immigrants.
    When there are schools out there that have over 31 different languages/dialects in them actually understanding you are about to be stabbed maybe a challenge!!

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  • VectraMan
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    The actual story here is that 10% of young people when asked said they felt it was difficult to cope with daily life. Which is probably just as true now as it was at any time in history, except perhaps in the past people would be too ashamed to admit it. 10% is probably quite a small number; you'd get more if you asked people if they could hear a humming noise.

    Still, can't beat a good "things aren't as good as they used to be" thread.

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  • d000hg
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    Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
    School no longer prepares them for the real world. Wrapped up in cotton wool in a totally safe environment
    Which schools are these, I thought kids had to be tough to avoid getting stabbed by immigrants.

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  • Spacecadet
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    Originally posted by vetran View Post
    Should have spent the money on low class whores!


    That's where the other half went

    Back to the OP though - Parents are just as much to blame (if not more) as the schools

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
    +1

    Did me the world of good.

    I just wish I had not spent half my money on space invaders. But there we go.
    Should have spent the money on low class whores!

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  • BrilloPad
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    Originally posted by Gibbon View Post
    The tippest toppest bit of advice I can give is get them a part time job at 16 and stop giving them pocket money. The amount of soft skills it teaches is invaluable for later life. It's not the same paying them for household tasks. They have to learn to get along with stroppy bosses, conniving colleagues for themselves. If they don't like it then get another job before packing it in etc. Time planning, money planning, the joy of your own wage packet.

    HTH
    +1

    Did me the world of good.

    I just wish I had not spent half my money on space invaders. But there we go.

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  • Gibbon
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    The tippest toppest bit of advice I can give is get them a part time job at 16 and stop giving them pocket money. The amount of soft skills it teaches is invaluable for later life. It's not the same paying them for household tasks. They have to learn to get along with stroppy bosses, conniving colleagues for themselves. If they don't like it then get another job before packing it in etc. Time planning, money planning, the joy of your own wage packet.

    HTH

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  • BrilloPad
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    I am already preparing my kids for the real world. Get A levels (degree is too expensive) then get a skill you can use to move abroad.

    They know alot about sarcasm too.

    And got them laptops with these warnings :-
    1. I have a friend whose hobby is going onto lesbian chat sites. People will lie on the internet(not that I would ever stoop that low).
    2. Never ever meet anyone in real life without letting someone else know.
    3. If it goes wrong FFS tell me so I can sort it out. And have a good laugh about it.....

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  • Anubis
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    No surprise really. Even if you're good at school it's nothing like being fantastic at business and work. The attitude of "everyone is a winner" kids are told in school doesn't apply in the real world and the teachers giving career advise have no idea. Most tutors haven't ever worked beyond their own profession yet are giving out career advice from the back of a leaflet.

    Most come out of school or uni thinking "wahey! I got an A+ in English Literature and everyone says I'm great, the world must owe me something...". A generalisation I know, but most just aren't ready for the real world - the lack of common sense is shocking! "The phone is ringing, what do I do?" ~ er...pick it up maybe? lol

    There is a huge gap between education as a child and business. That's why you sometimes find those without A's on their scorecard actually make good business people.

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  • Gibbon
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    Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
    BBC News - Young 'cannot cope with daily life'

    No surprise really.Parentsno longer prepare them for the real world. Wrapped up in cotton wool in a totally safe environment. And always being told they are going to be someone.

    About time really that sParents told them lifes a bitch, then you marry one,then you divorce, then you have a right old shag fest, then you meet the right person then you die. Like the good old days......
    FTFY

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  • OwlHoot
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    Originally posted by northernladuk View Post
    .. In the old days coming home with or without a cane mark was a clear indicator of how you did that day.
    Chortle!

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  • northernladuk
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    Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
    About time really that schools told them lifes a bitch, then you marry one, then you die. Like the good old days......
    Damn straight, all these figures and statistics telling the kids how they are doing but they can't tell day by day. In the old days coming home with or without a cane mark was a clear indicator of how you did that day.

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  • BrilloPad
    started a topic Young 'cannot cope with daily life'

    Young 'cannot cope with daily life'

    BBC News - Young 'cannot cope with daily life'

    No surprise really. School no longer prepares them for the real world. Wrapped up in cotton wool in a totally safe environment. And always being told they are going to be someone.

    About time really that schools told them lifes a bitch, then you marry one, then you die. Like the good old days......

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