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TheFaQQer replied

19 October 2009, 12:59
Originally posted by Moose423956 View Post

How did you know I'm a permie project manager? You're good!

Spartacus told me. And since he is you, and I am he, it was simple.
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Moose423956 replied

19 October 2009, 12:00
Originally posted by TheFaQQer View Post

I think it's the utter shame of being a permie project manager.

She'll rumble him in the end....

How did you know I'm a permie project manager? You're good!
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Moose423956 replied

19 October 2009, 12:00
Originally posted by alreadypacked View Post

Contractor

Don't worry, it's not that bad!
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TheFaQQer replied

19 October 2009, 09:53
Originally posted by Moose423956 View Post

I have a hidden past, one that I'm not proud of, actually I'm quite ashamed of it. Question is, as I'm now in a serious relationship, should I volunteer that fact? It could mean the end of the relationship.

And no, I'm not going to tell you what it is.

Did you steal a tornado so you could deliver some fresh lasagne from Prague?
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TheFaQQer replied

19 October 2009, 09:52
I think it's the utter shame of being a permie project manager.

She'll rumble him in the end....
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Andy2 replied

19 October 2009, 09:52
Keep schtum and carry on invoicing
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helen replied

19 October 2009, 09:52
Originally posted by Moose423956 View Post

I have a hidden past, one that I'm not proud of, actually I'm quite ashamed of it. Question is, as I'm now in a serious relationship, should I volunteer that fact? It could mean the end of the relationship.

And no, I'm not going to tell you what it is.

Heavens, you didn't vote for UKIP did you?
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alreadypacked replied

19 October 2009, 09:50
Originally posted by Moose423956 View Post

No, nothing to do with that. I think I'll tell her if/when the relationship becomes more serious, till then I'll keep it under my hat.

By the way, I am a Southerner, and proud of it! But that's not the issue either.

Contractor
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TheFaQQer replied

19 October 2009, 09:45
Originally posted by xoggoth View Post

I hope not. The wife got me a cheap pedometer from Tescos a few weeks back. I assumed it was measuring my steps.
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NotAllThere replied

19 October 2009, 08:34
Originally posted by EternalOptimist View Post

Drugs
Prison
Bankrupt
Wife beating
Paedo
GBH
Southerner
National Front
Sex Change
...

Politician
Tele-evangelist
HR manager
Agent
Enforcer
Blackmailer
Paparazzi
Founder member of "Schools Against the Bomb".
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Bagpuss replied

18 October 2009, 23:11
Originally posted by xoggoth View Post

I hope not. The wife got me a cheap pedometer from Tescos a few weeks back. I assumed it was measuring my steps.

She was just making sure
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vetran replied

18 October 2009, 23:10
Xog as always hat off! Keyboard / coffee interface moment.

As above professional advice is needed for both Moose & I suspect Xoggy!
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xoggoth replied

18 October 2009, 23:02
Pedo or Paedo are both acceptable colloquialisms

I hope not. The wife got me a cheap pedometer from Tescos a few weeks back. I assumed it was measuring my steps.
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Moose423956 replied

18 October 2009, 20:59
Originally posted by zamzummim View Post

Moose, is this to do with the old saga you shared with us here a couple of years ago, remember A, B and C --- you were married to A, but in love with B, told B you are in love with her over MSN, but she is already married , so she freaks out and gives you the cold shoulder, then C turned up or something like that, then you had to divorce A etc??? I can’t remember all the details, but if your past to do with the above saga, then can’t see its relevant to your present relationship, and can’t see it would harm it if you tell/not tell.

No, nothing to do with that. I think I'll tell her if/when the relationship becomes more serious, till then I'll keep it under my hat.

By the way, I am a Southerner, and proud of it! But that's not the issue either.
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xoggoth replied

18 October 2009, 19:50
I wouldn't.
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