How to disagree

[ladymuck]

Much better to just shoot any bar steward who disagrees with you, puts an end to the arguments once and for all. In many ways, cavemen were much more sensible.

If I shot bar stewards, I'd have to give up drinking

[BrilloPad]

Actually, that's what seems to be going on behind the scenes by PM. My worst enemies on the public forum are attentive lovers on the quiet.

If it is NLUK you had better keep quiet. PC will get jealous....

[mb31]

Listen intently and aim for empathy - it's all about "a willingness to take in what the other person says,"

Go looking for conflict - Then "listen compassionately, give your point of view and express love," says Arthur Brooks

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8 things that will never happen on CUK.

Actually, that's what seems to be going on behind the scenes by PM. My worst enemies on the public forum are attentive lovers on the quiet.

[xoggoth]

Much better to just shoot any bar steward who disagrees with you, puts an end to the arguments once and for all. In many ways, cavemen were much more sensible.

[Zigenare]

How to disagree well: Two close friends who have reason to hate each other - BBC News

How to disagree better - eight tips

You don't have to agree - disagreeing itself isn't the problem, it's how we do it

Don't aim for the middle ground - splitting the difference isn't the answer when you fundamentally disagree

How you talk is more important than what you talk about - "What matters is the dynamic that exists between us," says couples counsellor Esther Perel

Speak truthfully - to form meaningful relationships what's needed is total honesty

Listen intently and aim for empathy - it's all about "a willingness to take in what the other person says," says Esther Perel

Dial down the rhetoric and rein in the insults - "No one in history has ever been insulted into agreement," says Harvard professor Arthur Brooks

Understand the difference between fact and opinion - opinions are perspectives to be tested against the evidence, not just weapons to be wielded against our opponents

Go looking for conflict - Then "listen compassionately, give your point of view and express love," says Arthur Brooks

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8 things that will never happen on CUK.

Your opinions are tulip! Really tulip!

[Old Greg]

[GJABS]

Complete Horsetulip! ?

[malvolio]

How to disagree well: Two close friends who have reason to hate each other - BBC News

How to disagree better - eight tips

You don't have to agree - disagreeing itself isn't the problem, it's how we do it

Don't aim for the middle ground - splitting the difference isn't the answer when you fundamentally disagree

How you talk is more important than what you talk about - "What matters is the dynamic that exists between us," says couples counsellor Esther Perel

Speak truthfully - to form meaningful relationships what's needed is total honesty

Listen intently and aim for empathy - it's all about "a willingness to take in what the other person says," says Esther Perel

Dial down the rhetoric and rein in the insults - "No one in history has ever been insulted into agreement," says Harvard professor Arthur Brooks

Understand the difference between fact and opinion - opinions are perspectives to be tested against the evidence, not just weapons to be wielded against our opponents

Go looking for conflict - Then "listen compassionately, give your point of view and express love," says Arthur Brooks

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8 things that will never happen on CUK.

I disagree...

[BrilloPad]

How to disagree well: Two close friends who have reason to hate each other - BBC News

How to disagree better - eight tips

You don't have to agree - disagreeing itself isn't the problem, it's how we do it

Don't aim for the middle ground - splitting the difference isn't the answer when you fundamentally disagree

How you talk is more important than what you talk about - "What matters is the dynamic that exists between us," says couples counsellor Esther Perel

Speak truthfully - to form meaningful relationships what's needed is total honesty

Listen intently and aim for empathy - it's all about "a willingness to take in what the other person says," says Esther Perel

Dial down the rhetoric and rein in the insults - "No one in history has ever been insulted into agreement," says Harvard professor Arthur Brooks

Understand the difference between fact and opinion - opinions are perspectives to be tested against the evidence, not just weapons to be wielded against our opponents

Go looking for conflict - Then "listen compassionately, give your point of view and express love," says Arthur Brooks

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8 things that will never happen on CUK.