Reply to: Santacide

[cojak]

Right. I am locking this this thread.

It isn’t funny and to stir up bad feelings on Christmas Eve is not my idea of a joke.

Keep your ‘jokes’ to yourself mb31, or you will find yourself with a ban before the year is out.

Thread closed.

[BrilloPad]

NLUK doesn't know it all. Perhaps he thinks he does.

He knows his limits. What he does not know he asks his accountant. His only mistake was getting married - the UK's first gladiator wedding. Where the bride and groom were toasted with lime chutney.

In fact I just found where they married Gladiator Las Vegas Wedding Packages from Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapels

[NotAllThere]

NLUK doesn't know it all. Perhaps he thinks he does...and no I'm not enjoying the attention.

Yet you keep courting it with provocative comments. I mean, I believe you, but...

[mb31]

NLUK demeans everyone. Its why we love him! He also highly knowledable and has helped many posters, myself included. He was not a forum poster of the year for nothing. You wait until you want help on JSA! NLUK knows it all.

General is full of people who throw their weight around. They are best ignored. But I suspect you are secretly enjoying the attention.

NLUK doesn't know it all. Perhaps he thinks he does...and no I'm not enjoying the attention.

[BrilloPad]

I've met NLUK IRL and hes got a really small willy.... ;-)

He had just been swimming in the Manchester canal and it was very cold. The rumour his wife cut the end off it is quite false.....

[BrilloPad]

I've asked you several times to stop but you seem to enjoy throwing your weight around and trying to demean me.

NLUK demeans everyone. Its why we love him! He also highly knowledable and has helped many posters, myself included. He was not a forum poster of the year for nothing. You wait until you want help on JSA! NLUK knows it all.

General is full of people who throw their weight around. They are best ignored. But I suspect you are secretly enjoying the atention.

[mb31]

I don't actually think this is a sockie. Even they wouldn't stoop this low.

You're stooping very low and your posts on this thread are unequivocal evidence.

You think you can be judge, jury and executioner. If what you claim is true then I agree that it would be an act worthy of a ban but any 'tough response' should come fairly from the moderators. Instead you use defamatory language as you attempt to shame me into leaving.

Murder, rape and domestic violence are morally reprehensible. Talking about suicide in a way that you don't feel is genuine is not in the same bracket.

You continually drag all my threads back onto the same topic and then claim I'm the attention seeking one. I've asked you several times to stop but you seem to enjoy throwing your weight around and trying to demean me.

You've made your point and you're not going to change your mind so why are we wasting our energy having this conversation?

[northernladyuk]

And I get this but any decent person can differentiate the difference between what they are desensitized to and what is decent everyone else. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out that, in this day and age of male mental health, that it's a very sensitive subject and should be treated carefully with consideration of others peoples experiences however desensitized you are. Nearly every single post has proven without a doubt you don't care and it's all about you regardless. Even if you were at the time you should be able to look back and consider what you've done, which you haven't. Not one ounce of remorse, and in fact, just more look at me posts. From your first post on here you've proven that.

Remember this line... one of the few things you've actually got right..



Yet you are still here being the big I am. That either means you don't really think it and it was all part of your attention seeking or there is something wrong with you still chatting away to a couple of thousand people when you know you are not liked. As long as one or two people reply you are ok Jack.

What you did was highly offensive and reprehensible to anyone that's in a bad place either now or recently and particularly to people that have lost friends recently though mental health. The fact you can't see this is really testament to how much off a total chunt you are.



Because we are very sensitive to the issue here, as any decent bloke would be. No one in their right mind would say that to someone suffering mental health problems but ******* pricks like you spoil the whole thing. If you can't see that then you need to really sit down and re-think for ******* disgraceful attitude. This thread adds to that.

Maybe the people that put the time to help like wattaj who put it all over his linked in needs to follow up with another and say, false alarm, he just wanted attention and see the backlash you'll get from that and I can guarantee you it will be much worse than anything I can give. We've already had evidence of this from 'that girl again' posts recently.


Where that has been totally true up to now I really honestly think we've finally found one in you.


No you are just a disgraceful arsehole that ought to **** off an re-think his entire attitude, not just his posting history on here. Any decent person would have quietly left the forums and hope the whole thing dies a death. No one in a dark place would be proud of posting that and would want to forget it to move on and try improve their situation, not lord it over the rest and bants with his new found attention from it. Truly disgraceful attitude.

You call that a personality.. Jesus wept. Remember the line you posted yourself above?



We can move on when you **** off. Death, suicide, killing santa in front of your kids, congratulating someone for a post involving more lethality than yours and lord knows whatever crap you are going to come up with next is not a bit of fun.

You've been a disgrace on this forum and your lack of remorse or realization of the situation is highly offensive to me, and I am sure many others.

It's not us that needs to move on.

I'm sure my attacks on you are making me even less popular in some peoples eyes than I already I am but I'm emotionally invested in this topic and think it needs to be said regardless so there it is.

NLUK

I haven't got the time to respond to your message line by line and I don't think it would be a healthy way to spend my time either. I'l respond as briefly as possible.

1) You think my mental health suicidal wobbles are fake, prove it. I can print off a copy of my secondary care notes and mood charting from the last two weeks. Alternatively you could talk to my wife. I can PM her number to you if you're that morbidly interested.
2) You don't speak for several thousand people as far as I'm aware and I didn't vote for you. You're basing your entire diatribe on assumptions.
3) Actually there are people on here who do like me or I would guess so based on their friendly PMs.
4) You don't share my sense of humour and you find me annoying. Stick me on your ignore list. I have no objections because these exchanges seem to be aggravating you more than me.
5) Actually I do have a proven track record of adapting to different type of forum environments and I can point you in the direction of moderators on other forums who would agree.
6) I don't know what your MH experience is but it doesn't sound like you know much about bipolar or schizophrenia based on your interpretation of my behaviour. For what it's worth I'm well known in the UK online Bipolar community. My behaviour does not upset other people with the diagnosis and it's understood.

Actually I'm not very proud of the thread that has upset you but for different reasons. I shouldn't have bought my children into this and regretfully I triggered a few people on here who clearly have their own mental health issues (including you). I was relieved when NAT closed the thread.

I genuinely hope you have a Merry Christmas.

Get a room, you two. Or a toilet cubicle.

[northernladuk]

Dew Dew NLUK mun.... Bit harsh innit.

In this particular instance I don't think it is at all. Difficult topic that people don't like to call out I totally agree but, for me, this one is over the line so required a tough response.

[psychocandy]

And I get this but any decent person can differentiate the difference between what they are desensitized to and what is decent everyone else. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out that, in this day and age of male mental health, that it's a very sensitive subject and should be treated carefully with consideration of others peoples experiences however desensitized you are. Nearly every single post has proven without a doubt you don't care and it's all about you regardless. Even if you were at the time you should be able to look back and consider what you've done, which you haven't. Not one ounce of remorse, and in fact, just more look at me posts. From your first post on here you've proven that.

Remember this line... one of the few things you've actually got right..



Yet you are still here being the big I am. That either means you don't really think it and it was all part of your attention seeking or there is something wrong with you still chatting away to a couple of thousand people when you know you are not liked. As long as one or two people reply you are ok Jack.

What you did was highly offensive and reprehensible to anyone that's in a bad place either now or recently and particularly to people that have lost friends recently though mental health. The fact you can't see this is really testament to how much off a total chunt you are.



Because we are very sensitive to the issue here, as any decent bloke would be. No one in their right mind would say that to someone suffering mental health problems but ******* pricks like you spoil the whole thing. If you can't see that then you need to really sit down and re-think for ******* disgraceful attitude. This thread adds to that.

Maybe the people that put the time to help like wattaj who put it all over his linked in needs to follow up with another and say, false alarm, he just wanted attention and see the backlash you'll get from that and I can guarantee you it will be much worse than anything I can give. We've already had evidence of this from 'that girl again' posts recently.


Where that has been totally true up to now I really honestly think we've finally found one in you.


No you are just a disgraceful arsehole that ought to **** off an re-think his entire attitude, not just his posting history on here. Any decent person would have quietly left the forums and hope the whole thing dies a death. No one in a dark place would be proud of posting that and would want to forget it to move on and try improve their situation, not lord it over the rest and bants with his new found attention from it. Truly disgraceful attitude.

You call that a personality.. Jesus wept. Remember the line you posted yourself above?



We can move on when you **** off. Death, suicide, killing santa in front of your kids, congratulating someone for a post involving more lethality than yours and lord knows whatever crap you are going to come up with next is not a bit of fun.

You've been a disgrace on this forum and your lack of remorse or realization of the situation is highly offensive to me, and I am sure many others.

It's not us that needs to move on.

I'm sure my attacks on you are making me even less popular in some peoples eyes than I already I am but I'm emotionally invested in this topic and think it needs to be said regardless so there it is.

Dew Dew NLUK mun.... Bit harsh innit.

[psychocandy]

NLUK,

I'm desensitised to suicide talk and I mix in circles where it's common to be chatting about trivial nonsense one day and then be on the cusp of it the next. Meds made me rapid cycling but I'm sick of talking about bipolar or the other thread or being a tedious sockie or whatever else you wish to continuously comment on.

Ok, suicide threads are not the norm on here but I can assure you that the reaction I got was not the one intended. I genuinely thought you were going to tell me to f**k off and that would be the end of it.

I now know that none of the people who come across as @rseholes on here are actually like that IRL so I don't take any of the personal attacks seriously. You've been here a long time and are no doubt emotionally invested in the forum. I respect that and won't react when you try to get a rise out of me. Perhaps you think ousting me will do a greater good but it won't make any difference. I'm just another forum member with a personality.

This thread was meant to be a bit of fun, I don't see how it makes me centre of attention. Not everything on general has to descend into an argument or a personal attack.

Can we please drop it and move on?

I've met NLUK IRL and hes got a really small willy.... ;-)

[northernladuk]

Mods should do ID and address check.

Failure to provide those == sockie.

I don't actually think this is a sockie. Even they wouldn't stoop this low.

[BrilloPad]

Mods should do ID and address check.

Failure to provide those == sockie.

Do try to keep up. Have you been inside for squirrel molesting again?

[BrilloPad]

One of the most useful help I got about my mental health was from Troll. "Suicidal people should be told to get on with it. 90% are false alarms. 10% will do it anyway".

Quite.

[AtW]

Mods should do ID and address check.

Failure to provide those == sockie.