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Previously on "Now that explains a lot"

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  • d000hg
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    Originally posted by vetran View Post
    https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-...ptoms-effects/




    She may well be feeling unwanted as a result of the abuse so she tries to make herself wanted by being attention seeking. Obviously I'm not a Psychiatrist etc.

    Whatever its sad, poor girl.
    Sounds pretty standard. The bullied become bullies, the sexually abused get their validation and self-worth through being wanted sexually, etc, etc.

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  • BrilloPad
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    Originally posted by oracleslave View Post
    You sure you don't want her to "tool up" and go round her brother house and give him a good kicking a la your views on Eric Bristow?

    Sexist.
    I thought the idea was to throw darts at the perp's head?

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  • oracleslave
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    Originally posted by DodgyAgent View Post
    I have nothing but sympathy for her
    You sure you don't want her to "tool up" and go round her brother house and give him a good kicking a la your views on Eric Bristow?

    Sexist.

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by kaiser78 View Post
    I am not sure how this would correlate.
    https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-...ptoms-effects/

    Long term effects of abuse and neglect include:

    emotional difficulties such as anger, anxiety, sadness or low self-esteem
    mental health problems such as depression, eating disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), self harm, suicidal thoughts
    problems with drugs or alcohol
    disturbing thoughts, emotions and memories that cause distress or confusion
    poor physical health such as obesity, aches and pains
    struggling with parenting or relationships
    worrying that their abuser is still a threat to themselves or others
    learning difficulties, lower educational attainment, difficulties in communicating
    behavioural problems including anti-social behaviour, criminal behaviour.

    She may well be feeling unwanted as a result of the abuse so she tries to make herself wanted by being attention seeking. Obviously I'm not a Psychiatrist etc.

    Whatever its sad, poor girl.

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  • kaiser78
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    Originally posted by vetran View Post
    and in light of the new information we may now know why hence my apology for deriding her for being an attention seeking selfie queen.
    I am not sure how this would correlate.

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by kaiser78 View Post
    But she is also an attention seeker - selfie queen or some'it like th't (I've never typed northern before...).
    and in light of the new information we may now know why hence my apology for deriding her for being an attention seeking selfie queen.

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by shaunbhoy View Post
    No, that's Neil Kinnock you are thinking of.

    HTH

    no he was just a champagne socialist. Didn't affect me.

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  • kaiser78
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    Originally posted by vetran View Post
    absolutely not. I was being apologetic. I had dismissed her as a stupid girl now I find she was a tortured soul deserving of my sympathy.

    I suppose I now need to give Sally Bercow the benefit of the Doubt.

    John Bercow is still a twerp IMHO! As is Simon Danzuk & Mr Cheeky girls.
    But she is also an attention seeker - selfie queen or some'it like th't (I've never typed northern before...).

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  • shaunbhoy
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    Originally posted by vetran View Post
    They could have been buggered by Beelzebub (over the age of consent) and I would be throwing sticks & petrol at them.
    No, that's Neil Kinnock you are thinking of.

    HTH

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by NotAllThere View Post
    Stupid attention seeking bints can at the same time have a tortured soul and be deserving of our sympathy.
    possibly, but she hasn't offended me just disappointed me. So I'll do sympathy on its own.

    Its a bit like Jezzy. If he came out with a sex scandal with a consenting adult I would probably feel sorry for him.

    Now Galloway, Livingstone and B'Liar / B'ruin have offended me. They are on my wouldn't urinate on list. They could have been buggered by Beelzebub (over the age of consent) and I would be throwing sticks & petrol at them. Though I suspect one or two of them would really enjoy it.

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  • NotAllThere
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    Stupid attention seeking bints can at the same time have a tortured soul and be deserving of our sympathy.

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by MaryPoppins View Post
    I can't work out if you're being sarcastic here.
    absolutely not. I was being apologetic. I had dismissed her as a stupid girl now I find she was a tortured soul deserving of my sympathy.

    I suppose I now need to give Sally Bercow the benefit of the Doubt.

    John Bercow is still a twerp IMHO! As is Simon Danzuk & Mr Cheeky girls.

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  • MaryPoppins
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    Originally posted by vetran View Post
    Karen Danczuk reveals her torment after being raped and molested by her brother | Daily Mail Online




    poor girl, thought she was just an attention seeking bint, I was obviously very wrong.

    I can't work out if you're being sarcastic here.

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  • vetran
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    Originally posted by d000hg View Post
    I don't know who either of them is (I thought Michael Burke was the newsreader) but that's awful.

    No doubt DA will be along to stick the boot in shortly.
    She is the ex wife of MP Simon Danczuk they both over shared sexually her with ever more explicit selfies and him with starlets. I did wonder if there was something behind it, apparently there was. Her Maiden name was Burke and her Brother was Michael Burke (a surprisingly common name) Not Buerk like the journalist.

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  • DodgyAgent
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    Originally posted by d000hg View Post
    I don't know who either of them is (I thought Michael Burke was the newsreader) but that's awful.

    No doubt DA will be along to stick the boot in shortly.
    I have nothing but sympathy for her

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