Reply to: Fill my love tank Biatch

[TheFaQQer]

I read a story about a submissive who forget the safe word!

Written by someone who did the same level of research as E.L. James.

[BrilloPad]

The submissive is ALWAYS the one with the control in the relationship - they are the one who has decided to submit to their Dominant in the first place. The submissive is the one that can always use the safe word to get out of the situation. The submissive is the one that can always revoke their submission and walk away from the relationship (or that part of the relationship).

If that isn't the case, then the Dominant is doing it wrong.

I read a story about a submissive who forget the safe word!

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[TheFaQQer]

That word "allowing" seems to indicate that the women are the ones really in control here.

The submissive is ALWAYS the one with the control in the relationship - they are the one who has decided to submit to their Dominant in the first place. The submissive is the one that can always use the safe word to get out of the situation. The submissive is the one that can always revoke their submission and walk away from the relationship (or that part of the relationship).

If that isn't the case, then the Dominant is doing it wrong.

[mudskipper]

Grabbing his butt doesn't sound very submissive.

[NotAllThere]

The women are allowing their husbands to be the leaders of their households...

That word "allowing" seems to indicate that the women are the ones really in control here.

[SteelyDan]

Tara, from Cary, North Carolina.....

another pile of 5hit from across the pond...oh dear.

[vetran]

Is there any type of female other than submissive?

<dons tin hat>

you have spelled dismissive wrong.

[OwlHoot]

That's what I call it in my household - the love tank. And when the love tank is empty I got a grumpy man.'

If she doesn't want a grumpy man on her hands, wouldn't it be better to ensure his "love tank" stays empty?

What was it that Streatham madame Cynthia Payne, who must know a thing or two, called it? "regular desp.."

[BrilloPad]

The ones who married you seem to have become more aggressive.

I am attracted to aggressive women. I had a submissive girlfriend in my teens. After a couple of years it gets very boring.

[TestMangler]

Is there any type of female other than submissive?

<dons tin hat>

The ones who married you seem to have become more aggressive.

[BrilloPad]

Is there any type of female other than submissive?

<dons tin hat>

[TykeMerc]

But it's funny.

It gets harder and harder to tell the difference between the Mail and the Mash every day.

There's a difference? I assumed it was just a typo and a different bandwidth website.

[Bunk]

stop. reading. the. mail. online.

But it's funny.

It gets harder and harder to tell the difference between the Mail and the Mash every day.

[minestrone]

stop. reading. the. mail. online.