How do you know if a woman likes you on a date?

[BrilloPad]

I normally take them home in a taxi. A sack seems a bit, I don't know, medieval.

Its a step up from the MTT treatment. Club over the head and back to the cave.

[d000hg]

Her. No, didn't mention my tits. Stuck to the usual topics - holidays, work and tampons.

"Would you like the URL for the live webcam of my bird box?" would be a good line.

[Zippy]

Her. No, didn't mention my tits. Stuck to the usual topics - holidays, work and tampons.

No mention of chocolate, shoes or blowjobs?? Are you sure you're a woman?

[mos]

So if she likes you then you pay.
Presumably divorce is a woman's way of showing that she loves you.

+ 100

[AtW]

Presumably divorce is a woman's way of showing that she loves you.

Well, as was promised - "till death do us part"...

[Dallas]

If they ask they pay and if they are any good it will be done upfront or when I am away from the table. If I didn't like him I wouldn't go, if he turned into an ar$e I'd leave, think that is fair?

[BrilloPad]

+ 100

Where is my +ve rep?

[BrilloPad]

If they ask they pay and if they are any good it will be done upfront or when I am away from the table. If I didn't like him I wouldn't go, if he turned into an ar$e I'd leave, think that is fair?

That relies on the man asking you out. I suppose its okay for you - you can just pick and choose.

If you fancied a bloke would you ask him out and then pay for the meal?

Anyway, who said life was fair?

I feel sorry for any date of yours being an ar$e. I bet the punishment would be swift and merciless......

[northernladuk]

I find the whole idea of anyone paying for me embarrassing and awkward. But that's my social gaucheness.

Having said that, I got bought lunch today

It's a fine line and one that can only be met by pure luck. I did the dating thing for quite a while for a period awhile ago and it's impossible to get right. I always though first date over a meal was the best way as you could talk about the food if the date wasn't going well. I then get told by numerous girly friends that they don't want a meal as if they don't want to be there they are stuck. Poppycock I though. A couple of weeks later I go on a date at the Trafford Centre and my date goes to the loo after the starter and ****s off. Embarrassing at the time but a great story. To save my blushes she text me from the car park saying she had an attack of the nerves can we do it again. My reply consisted of off and **** in no particular order.

I did however, expect to pay for the meal. Although being as tight as a gnats chuff I am a bit of an old gent and believe paying for the meal is my job. I learnt to offer, if she said no argue it once and if she said no again then let it be. I can respect modern women wanting to go dutch. Thing is, hands up how many guys have copped a withering stare from women for not holding the door open? I mean, if you want to go dutch then you can open your own ******* door as well. Can't have it both ways.

So... after the meals polava and some advice from an introduction agency first date was always over a coffee with a set time so the lady knew there was a get out, say an hour. If she liked the company she could stay but that was the exception. If she didn't she knew there was a get out with no embarrassing excuses. What happens? All my lady friends called it clinical and where is the romance? **** me. Can't bloody win.

Ended up meeting a lady for half an hour which cost me £30 and the rest, as you all know, is history.

[expat]

Dating rules: Why do so many women still insist on men paying for meals on a date? - Telegraph

An American woman will expect to share the cost.
A British woman will expect you to pay.
An Australian woman will arm-wrestle you for it.