Should bankruptcy wipe out debt to ex-spouses?

[dogzilla]

To be honest I feel more secure in this marriage because she has some money. I know she won't ever need to take anything from me. I'm earning well enough and will be buying a rental property within the next year anyway.

We have talked about making an agreement now, whilst we are on talking terms At the very least it might remind us when we need it most that we were once sane and reasonable people.

[d000hg]

Marriage is working out good for me,

What happened, did she call you away from the PC?

[d000hg]

You never know what people are really like until you divorce them.

It no doubt brings out the worst in people but you can't define someone by how they act at their worst. Or their best.

[speling bee]

What happened, did she call you away from the PC?

She's a wonder. I was just calling him a ******* pleb and she pulled me away double quick.

[SueEllen]

Then your marriage is stuffed. DO NOT HAVE KIDS. The sooner you divorce her the better - you will get half.

Or wait until she inherits then dovorce her.

He won't get half if the marriage is brief, they have no kids, he can't prove he spent a significant sum on the household and he can still support himself.

Though I do agree with you about definitely don't have kids with that woman.

[SueEllen]

To be honest I feel more secure in this marriage because she has some money. I know she won't ever need to take anything from me.

Sorry you are very stupid if you believe that.

Just because she doesn't need the money from you won't stop her demanding or trying to take it especially if you have kids and you split up.

[vetran]

sad isn't it.

I suggest you work on your rental property empire with your money. That way if you do split you have some contributions to argue over. Its also a great opportunity to change the dynamics slightly.

Put off kids until she has matured enough to realise you are in the traditional female role of the minor earner/financial contributor and need reassurance. As her family have money it may not make sense for her yet.

[MyUserName]

However loving and caring your wife seems now you can forget that if you divorce. It is truely amazing how hateful and malicious women get when going through a divorce, honestly it is like some Jeckyle and Hyde thing.

If you divorce then assume that she will come after you with everything she can (and the courts will support her) and that she will do everything to make your life a misery from refusing to sign documents which she needs to sign (thus meaning you have to spend more money on a solicitor to chase her) to her telling the courts that she thinks (without any evidence) that your new girlfriend is a nutter and will not allow you to see your children if she is there - this is, of course, after months of her doing that already but it takes that long to get it to court etc and the entire time she has been telling the kids that you do not want to see them because your new girlfriend hates them.

Make sure that you are careful in how you arrange things and do not leave anything vulnerable because she is likely to grab it.

[DodgyAgent]

Always remember - women bear grudges

[BrilloPad]

He won't get half if the marriage is brief,

Best for him if it is.