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I've been divorced twice.....Yes I know. Got it right the third time though....so far....
If there are no kids then you each take out what you brought into the relationship and everything since you met is split 50\50. Any solicitor should get you that deal and get it approved in court. ALWAYS insist on a clean break split if there are no kids.
If there are kids involved the rulebook goes out the window.
Good luck.
...my quagmire of greed....my cesspit of laziness and unfairness....all I am doing is sticking two fingers up at nurses, doctors and other hard working employed professionals...
Terrifying isn’t it, the average married bloke is one decent row away from ending up in a bedsit. 6 months later some wayne will be sat in his Laz-e-boy drinking cold lager which he is paying for, watching his widescreen and bringing up his kids. In the meantime his ex is turning them against him and making his life hell – wonderful, where do I sign….
Currently no 'wayne' on the scene which is probably why she spends so much time trying to derail my life, relationship with the kids etc.
The scary thing is that you don't even need a row, she can just up and off on a whim and there's SFA you can do about it. The settlement is the same (punative) regardless of who kicks the whole thing off.
Aye, brothers wife decided her life wasn't as wonderful as expected and bailed (well, told him to bail...). Also decided dentistry wasn't for her so would become a 'healer' so he got to bankroll her life, 15 years later she is still disrupting his life.
Thanks for the support and suggestions guys. Initially I approached a mediator but my wife was unwilling to take this option. After some deliberation I've decided to use Murray Davies from Nottingham.
The majority of women will try to take the shirt from your back upon divorce. If you think you're ready to marry then take a look around you. Do you have a nice house, a nice car, pensions provisions etc? How would you feel if you had to give that to the woman you are proposing to? In exchange you get a bitter and twisted ex poisoning your only child against you.
My ex is trying to end up with no mortgage, a new car and monthly total tax free income of approximately 3,500. She has only ever worked part time in a shop.
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