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    #41
    Originally posted by k2p2 View Post
    Sometimes it's difficult to talk about these things face to face. My suggestion would be to send her a link to this thread. That should sort things out.
    .

    Wilmslow, you should listen to K2. She knows her stuff.
    Practically perfect in every way....there's a time and (more importantly) a place for malarkey.
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      #42
      We should turn this thread into a photo-story (in a Sun stylee).

      Is it all off then, Wilmslow?
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        #43
        Originally posted by Zippy View Post
        We should turn this thread into a photo-story (in a Sun stylee).

        Is it all off then, Wilmslow?
        Good idea.

        I reckon we will have wedding bells this year.
        Practically perfect in every way....there's a time and (more importantly) a place for malarkey.
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          #44
          Originally posted by Zippy View Post
          We should turn this thread into a photo-story (in a Sun stylee).

          Is it all off then, Wilmslow?
          Nope, still on, but a rather weird feeling at breakfast this morning.

          Because she has trouble sleeping and I need sleep on a school night, I spent the night in the spare room, so slept brilliantly well. Gf did not sleep a wink, and looked like a zombie this morning.

          I think she was feeling bad about making what should have been a good evening sour and had that ‘what have I done’ feeling about her.

          I mentioned another long distance relationship where because we were chilled about meeting as and when things went a lot better than they are just now. She said no wonder it ended, which was very below the belt.

          I need to face I am dating a control freak and I am too stubborn to work with this.

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            #45
            Originally posted by Wilmslow View Post
            Nope, still on, but a rather weird feeling at breakfast this morning.

            Because she has trouble sleeping and I need sleep on a school night, I spent the night in the spare room, so slept brilliantly well. Gf did not sleep a wink, and looked like a zombie this morning.

            I think she was feeling bad about making what should have been a good evening sour and had that ‘what have I done’ feeling about her.

            I mentioned another long distance relationship where because we were chilled about meeting as and when things went a lot better than they are just now. She said no wonder it ended, which was very below the belt.

            I need to face I am dating a control freak and I am too stubborn to work with this.
            Um yeah, I think you probably need to knock this one on the head.
            Practically perfect in every way....there's a time and (more importantly) a place for malarkey.
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              #46
              Originally posted by MaryPoppins View Post
              Good idea.

              I reckon we will have wedding bells this year.
              Well, she did talk about weddings and how it can be done cheap by having a meal at a Toby Carvery. She was not kidding. She is a very intelligent high flying teacher, but sees money in a peculiar perspective!!

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                #47
                Originally posted by Wilmslow View Post
                Well, she did talk about weddings and how it can be done cheap by having a meal at a Toby Carvery. She was not kidding. She is a very intelligent high flying teacher, but sees money in a peculiar perspective!!
                That's genius. Perhaps you are a match made in heaven eh.
                Practically perfect in every way....there's a time and (more importantly) a place for malarkey.
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                  #48
                  Wilmslow, it sounds to me like you're not looking for a relationship, you're only looking for a **** buddy.

                  Set the girl straight, you're wasting her time/life.

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                    #49
                    Originally posted by Churchill View Post
                    Wilmslow, it sounds to me like you're not looking for a relationship, you're only looking for a **** buddy.

                    Set the girl straight, you're wasting her time/life.
                    Exacltly the other way I think - I am more wanting to get to know each other in a chilled way, but she is wanting sex every time we meet up. It is as thought she is like a PM planning a gantt chart for this, hence the working on a relationship is like a job perspective she has.

                    She could spend the weekend with me, but chooses not to do things like diy / usual weekend stuff etc, wanting this time to be set aside exclusively for her saying she wants to mazimise what little time she has with me. I need to find a way to let her feel able to do weekend things, let me go to the gym and not pine - either that, or things will definately come to an end.

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                      #50
                      Originally posted by Wilmslow View Post
                      Exacltly the other way I think - I am more wanting to get to know each other in a chilled way, but she is wanting sex every time we meet up. It is as thought she is like a PM planning a gantt chart for this, hence the working on a relationship is like a job perspective she has.

                      She could spend the weekend with me, but chooses not to do things like diy / usual weekend stuff etc, wanting this time to be set aside exclusively for her saying she wants to mazimise what little time she has with me. I need to find a way to let her feel able to do weekend things, let me go to the gym and not pine - either that, or things will definately come to an end.
                      Give CM or MP her number, they'll fix it for you.

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