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Money vs Home - who wins?

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    #21
    Home.

    Once you reach a certain age, let's say 35, you
    realize that peace and quiet are very worthy
    assets.

    The quality of life in rural and small towns
    is far higher than in big cities, plus the cost of
    living is lower.

    Currently I live in Brussels and I am starting to
    hate every minute of it. And Brussels is maybe
    1/10 the size of London.

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      #22
      Originally posted by markinbrussels View Post
      Home.

      Once you reach a certain age, let's say 35, you
      realize that peace and quiet are very worthy
      assets.

      The quality of life in rural and small towns
      is far higher than in big cities,
      plus the cost of
      living is lower.

      Currently I live in Brussels and I am starting to
      hate every minute of it. And Brussels is maybe
      1/10 the size of London.
      Only in your opinion, don't be definitive with a matter that is subjective unless you have compelling evidence.
      But I discovered nothing else but depraved, excessive superstition. Pliny the younger

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        #23
        Originally posted by markinbrussels View Post
        The quality of life in rural and small towns
        is far higher than in big cities, .

        Nonsense.
        If you can afford to live in one of London's more salubrious areas you can have a village-like existence (minus all the stupid drongos) AND all the benefits of the big city, when you choose.
        Hard Brexit now!
        #prayfornodeal

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          #24
          Originally posted by sasguru View Post
          Nonsense.
          If you can afford to live in one of London's more salubrious areas you can have a village-like existence (minus all the stupid drongos) AND all the benefits of the big city, when you choose.
          Well. That's the point. If you can afford it.

          I am neither a Russian oligarch nor a NHS manager, so I can't.

          OTOH, the older you become, the more you prefer the company of sheep and the less of (some) humans.

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            #25
            It's quite possible to feel at home in more than one place. My tiny but charming residence in town is an oasis of rest and tranquility at the end of a day's work, and convenient for visiting good restaurants while my house in the country allows me to unwind at the weekend in a more rural environment.

            Lady Tester sometimes visits me in town during the week, and I go back to the country at weekends.
            And what exactly is wrong with an "ad hominem" argument? Dodgy Agent, 16-5-2014

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              #26
              Originally posted by markinbrussels View Post
              Well. That's the point. If you can afford it.

              I am neither a Russian oligarch nor a NHS manager, so I can't.

              OTOH, the older you become, the more you prefer the company of sheep and the less of (some) humans.
              Nicely explained, you're Welsh and missing the green green grass of home.
              But I discovered nothing else but depraved, excessive superstition. Pliny the younger

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                #27
                Originally posted by Mich the Tester View Post
                It's quite possible to feel at home in more than one place. My tiny but charming residence in town is an oasis of rest and tranquility at the end of a day's work, and convenient for visiting good restaurants while my house in the country allows me to unwind at the weekend in a more rural environment.
                WMTTS

                Ahhh, Devon and London, Just like Hovis, "Best of Both" worlds.
                Never has a man been heard to say on his death bed that he wishes he'd spent more time in the office.

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                  #28
                  Bloody hell - 3 pages of replies and we all stayed on topic!!!! Whats happened to this place?!

                  Thanks everyone. I dont think there's a right or wrong answer here - everyone is different. But for me...I just want to be at home. I just miss my husband - he's my best mate and sick of not being able to meet him for a pint after work, or sit and watch tulipe documentaries together, and cuddle up with each other...
                  There's no amount of money that could keep me in London any longer (well...within reason like)
                  The pope is a tard.

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                    #29
                    Originally posted by gingerjedi View Post
                    Home every time but only because I have a 2 year old.

                    It's quite liberating to discover that spending less is the same as earning more.
                    Indeed.

                    No amount of money can buy your child's trust, respect & love. I'm a bad example as I live and work in a different country to my little man and although he likes coming to Germany to visit I know he'd rather have daddy at home every night and much as I like having my free time I'd rather have him than CUK of an evening.
                    While you're waiting, read the free novel we sent you. It's a Spanish story about a guy named 'Manual.'

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                      #30
                      Originally posted by SallyAnne View Post
                      I'm handing my notice in today on a reasonably long term gig in stupid fecking London, for a job on half as much money back home.

                      Am I mad?

                      How many of you would choose home over money?

                      Sal
                      xxx
                      Sometimes working away has its advantages. Like being able to live a bachelor life again, going out on the lash when you want, pulling a bird or two when you want, then, going home at weekend!

                      I'd chose a job in Newcastle upon Tyne over home any day of the week. Other than that, I prefer to work near home.

                      So, I cant do the poll cos the option for me aint there.
                      I couldn't give two fornicators! Yes, really!

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