Argh. I hate my ex!

[chef]

Chef, did she have no job?

yes, she was Executive Lounge manager at Hilton Manchester but then changed jobs to barwork to study, I believe she now works in The Cornerhouse, easy to spot, she'll be the scatty one who's obsessive about cleaning

[Mich the Tester]

Mary - give him something to cry about and kick him in the balls... but then... sounds like he hasn't got any. Any man who can walk away from a child deserves to be smacked.

castrated

[chef]

He isn't really worth it CM, I have maintained a calm facade for the last few months and so am forced to use this forum to vent, how sad!

nuttyexs.com

register here and get your ex's to meet up and wreck eachothers lives..

genius idea, you heard it here first

[cailin maith]

yes, she was Executive Lounge manager at Hilton Manchester but then changed jobs to barwork to study, I believe she now works in The Cornerhouse, easy to spot, she'll be the scatty one who's obsessive about cleaning

Wonder does my sis know her? She used to work at the Palace but the hotels in Manc are so incestous (sp??) they all know each other.

[Mich the Tester]

yes, she was Executive Lounge manager at Hilton Manchester but then changed jobs to barwork to study, I believe she now works in The Cornerhouse, easy to spot, she'll be the scatty one who's obsessive about cleaning

What in the bleeding hell is that? A sort of waitress with delusions of grandeur?

[MaryPoppins]

I actually dont hate my ex anymore. Problem with hate is it too close to love.

I just dont care anymore. Not since the 5 year point after my decree absolute.

Time is a great healer.

Just dont get me started on the family courts. All I want is for them to implement the law. Every single judge should be shot in the a**e. If I get a terminal disease I might just do it......

True - I am hopefully heading towards the route of indifference, but obviously preggers hormones are hindering that slightly! At least you cared enough to go via that route-I am doing all in my power to ensure he has no excuses not to be a daddy, but sadly fear it will still result in him letting his child down for good at some point.

[chef]

What in the bleeding hell is that? A sort of waitress with delusions of grandeur?

business class residents (or whatever the level above the great unwashed is at the Hilton) have their own Executive Lounge / business lounge, she was managing that dept. but essentially, yes, she was a glorified waitress/check in assistant

[chef]

True - I am hopefully heading towards the route of indifference, but obviously preggers hormones are hindering that slightly! At least you cared enough to go via that route-I am doing all in my power to ensure he has no excuses not to be a daddy, but sadly fear it will still result in him letting his child down for good at some point.

i don't think my woes trump yours, a car windscreen can be repaired and forgotten about..

[MaryPoppins]

It's not sad It's good to be anonymous and have a rant!

How much longer till the baby?

Thanks CM, it's working!

Mid June, have had a few months being extremely civil in the face of some rubbish, so can manage a few more. He is making noises about being involved with bubs from day 1, and I want to ensure nothing I do impacts on that. I am not naturally a 'calm in the face of an idiot' type however so it's hard going frankly. The desire to shove a pair of scissors up his nose today has been almost overwhelming.

[MaryPoppins]

i don't think my woes trump yours, a car windscreen can be repaired and forgotten about..

Years of that sort of behaviour isnt easily forgotten though I'd imagine?! Unfortunately we had been friends for years before being 'together' and I thought I knew him well. More fool me!