Is she the one?

[Lucy]

Lucy, whassup? You got flowers, but you seem down?

I'm just sick of some of the arsewipes on here hiding behind their sockpuppets thinking it's their job to say what is and isn't worthwhile on here. 'Men' here, post rubbish, I ignore it, women post something they don't like it's open season, I wish they would take their mysoginistic attitudes elsewhere. The funny thing is they are probably really unhappy at home, but too gutless to do anything about it.

[Xenophon]

and im not sure my love of norks can get us both across the line

How poignant.

[realityhack]

Gah! Hoist by my own petard.

You'll be ok - it hangs so low your feet won't leave the floor.

HTH

[Lucy]

Aussielong, you need to remember something that great wit Graham Norton said.... As you get older your list of prerequisites from a relationship gets longer, and the list of what you have to offer gets shorter, Therein lies your quandary. Sooner or later second best will be the only option.

In your case it's slops.

[Bagpuss]

In your case it's slops.

I don't consider you slops, Sloppy seconds maybe!

[DimPrawn]

I'm just sick of some of the arsewipes on here hiding behind their sockpuppets thinking it's their job to say what is and isn't worthwhile on here. 'Men' here, post rubbish, I ignore it, women post something they don't like it's open season, I wish they would take their mysoginistic attitudes elsewhere. The funny thing is they are probably really unhappy at home, but too gutless to do anything about it.

Harsh, but fair.

[Xenophon]

You'll be ok - it hangs so low your feet won't leave the floor.

HTH

Gah! Hoist by my own petard.

[aussielong]

Aussielong, you need to remember something that great wit Graham Norton said.... As you get older your list of prerequisites from a relationship gets longer, and the list of what you have to offer gets shorter, Therein lies your quandary. Sooner or later second best will be the only option.

zakly - but women and men are on differerent trajectories along that line of thinking, dont you think? dont you think we are on the upside longer? so we can get younger women because we decay slower. however, at a certain point we overtake when our nuts touch our knees and then the women win outright

[Xenophon]

I'm just sick of some of the arsewipes on here hiding behind their sockpuppets thinking it's their job to say what is and isn't worthwhile on here. 'Men' here, post rubbish, I ignore it, women post something they don't like it's open season, I wish they would take their mysoginistic attitudes elsewhere. The funny thing is they are probably really unhappy at home, but too gutless to do anything about it.

My views on sockpuppets are well publicised on here. I don't like 'em. Not a lot can be done though. The mods have commented on it a couple of times, but nothing will change.

Don't let it get to you. You got flowers today. I got bog all.

[Lucy]

I like this. I have been through this sort of stuff in a previous relationship and it really does form a bond. not in this relationship though.

i almost think i am emotionally self sustaining -but she isnt - and im not sure my love of norks can get us both across the line

No, it's more than that it's aching for someone and worry about them and knowing you will love them nomatter what.

I'm not sure what you mean by 'emotionally self sustaining', if you mean she is needy, then talk to her about it. Be as honest as humanly possible, get it all out in the open, you might fall more in love with her or you might realise you aren't meant to be together.