Is she the one?

[Charles Foster Kane]

when i was single, i could not get a sniff, i had to resort to speed dating

You have a big face don't you?

[rootsnall]

At 35 you are probably too old and jaded to go out pulling young birds but it's my guess you don't actually know this yet. The problem is for you to find out this vital piece of info you'll end up losing your current bird and then regretting it. Your choice !

[Lucy]

ok then, how does a slightly greying bloke know whether to stop trying to find women and commit to the one he has

attractive single women flirt with me in work, but i suspect its because they know i am loved up

when i was single, i could not get a sniff, i had to resort to speed dating

i for one, believe a man in his late 30's who has kept himself in shape physically is in his prime

What do you think you will find?

You might be in your prime of looks but you seem to lack heart and courage, like so many others...

[Xenophon]

Go find yourself one then.

Yay! A gay joke not aimed at me!

[Charles Foster Kane]

You have a big face don't you?

But on a serious note, look up Doc Love and 'The System'. All your answers lay within this bible.

[Xenophon]

You might be in your prime of looks but you seem to lack heart and courage, like so many others...

Lucy, whassup? You got flowers, but you seem down?

[wobbegong]

Yay! A gay joke not aimed at me!

Yep, eye lined up to make that one.

[Xenophon]

Yep, eye lined up to make that one.

Gah! Hoist by my own petard.

[aussielong]

The only man I would marry is someone who has seen me at my absolute worst and still loves me. Have you seen her at her 'worst'? Have you ever forgiven each other for really difficult stuff? Ever been completely and utterly honest even when you know it's going to hurt?

I like this. I have been through this sort of stuff in a previous relationship and it really does form a bond. not in this relationship though.

i almost think i am emotionally self sustaining -but she isnt - and im not sure my love of norks can get us both across the line

[Bagpuss]

Aussielong, you need to remember something that great wit Graham Norton said.... As you get older your list of prerequisites from a relationship gets longer, and the list of what you have to offer gets shorter, Therein lies your quandary. Sooner or later second best will be the only option.