Pursued by Minger

[EternalOptimist]

Your client has an interesting office......

Tell her you have a girlfriend at the moment. You can always split up with the imaginary girlfriend when you want.

mmm

I would tell her nothing personal at all. Dont let her draw you into anything thats not work related. Keep totally professional and hope it dies down.

[expat]

One of the permies at my current gig is after molesting me, she is working on 3 of the same projects, for a different department across the way.
It is so obvious she fancies me (there have been comments from colleagues already) and also obvious she is some kind of OC middle aged bunny boiler, and more importantly, she is minging.
It's quite funny/sad really, whenever I send an email regarding one of the three aforementioned projects I get a little call..."hi there..see you sent an email.....how you doin....", just waiting for the lunch invite.
So I thought, what's the best way to deal? Then I thought ask someone who knows how a middle aged bunny boiler thinks, and that led me here.
So girls, ladies, pretend ladies, any advice?

PMFJI but what's to deal with?

[SueEllen]

mmm

I would tell her nothing personal at all. Dont let her draw you into anything thats not work related. Keep totally professional and hope it dies down.

Nah just randomly drop "We's" into the conversation if you mention what you did at the weekend or evening. Guys tend to speak with a mixture of "I did" and "We did" there as women desperate to be married always talk as "We did".

[ace00]

Your client has an interesting office......

Tell her you have a girlfriend at the moment. You can always split up with the imaginary girlfriend when you want.

Yep, that might work. I already do the professional stance as per EO's post, I expect that will not hold her off for ever, so after I can hit her with the "well my girlfriend wouldn't like it" or even "It's not you, it's me".

[Churchill]

Yep, that might work. I already do the professional stance as per EO's post, I expect that will not hold her off for ever, so after I can hit her with the "well my girlfriend wouldn't like it" or even "It's not you, it's me".

Look, you're a bloke, she's gagging for it, don't you think it would be rude not to?
(Btw girls, I'm not really like this, honest. I'm really quite a nice chap.)

[cailin maith]

Yep, that might work. I already do the professional stance as per EO's post, I expect that will not hold her off for ever, so after I can hit her with the "well my girlfriend wouldn't like it" or even "It's not you, it's me".

Do the girlfriend thing, Sue Ellen is right.

[Churchill]

Do the girlfriend thing, Sue Ellen is right.

Here's an idea...

Play the "Sexual Harassment" card!

You might even get a few quid!

[daviejones]

See if you can go back to her place, do her up the gary and then put the video on youporn.com...


HTH

[TheBigYinJames]

Alternative take. She may be flirting with you, but sometimes that's all women ever want. She may be as aghast at the idea of taking it further than you are.

[cailin maith]

Here's an idea...

Play the "Sexual Harassment" card!

You might even get a few quid!

Alternative take. She may be flirting with you, but sometimes that's all women ever want. She may be as aghast at the idea of taking it further than you are.

Hmmmnnnn this is also possible