Men

[NickFitz]

Driving back from a gorgeous little restaurant in North Norfolk last night, was stopped by the filth and fined for speeding. Was driving BF's car, which I have been stopped in a few times, but have always managed to smile my way out of it. They weren't interested in the car I was driving, my smile or my very nice dress.
Pigs.

I'm glad to hear that at least some of the Police are doing the job we pay them for. Perhaps if you learnt to drive properly, as opposed to merely operating a vehicle with a complete disregard for the safety of yourself and others, you wouldn't have these problems?

Stopped at tesco after that asked BF to buy me a bottle of vodka, as I was so miffed, he went in and was gone for ages. Came back with a newspaper, half a dozen eggs, milk and a Curly flipping Wurly.
Tw*t.

He understood that you were angry with yourself for having done something stupid, although you won't face up to the fact that this is what you are feeling, instead seeking to transfer that anger to those who stopped you. He decided to help you by not getting you vodka, as he realised that turning to drink as a way of trying to avoid facing up to your self-hate would merely have added to your cycle of self-destructive behaviour.

Who will counsel the counsellors themselves?

[BrilloPad]

Driving back from a gorgeous little restaurant in North Norfolk last night, was stopped by the filth and fined for speeding. Was driving BF's car, which I have been stopped in a few times, but have always managed to smile my way out of it. They weren't interested in the car I was driving, my smile or my very nice dress.
Pigs.

Stopped at tesco after that asked BF to buy me a bottle of vodka, as I was so miffed, he went in and was gone for ages. Came back with a newspaper, half a dozen eggs, milk and a Curly flipping Wurly.
Tw*t.

I would go to counselling

[DimPrawn]

Lucy, if you were mine, instead of a Curly Wurly, I would have taken you up the Oxo Tower for a special treat.

HTH

[Sockpuppet]

Men are never interested in dresses. 'Thats a nice dress' means 'I like staring at your cleavage'. Ditto with the smile thing.

Why do women assume they deserve special treatment due to some of them being nice to look at for 10 years of their lives?


Maybe your looks are fading, time to get used to being treated normally love. This is why middle aged women are so bitter, it dawns on them that they didn't have sparkling personalities after all.

Seriously, I have done this many times in various ways. Since it is no longer PC to slap errant women we have to utilise subterfuge. Men should not feel guilt in anyway for this behaviour as women do the similar manipulative techniques all the time and they are far better at it.

You are clearly not as pretty as your delusions tell you.

Dont feel bad, ugly woman like you can still get shags.... with ugly guys.

I would go to counselling

All worthy CUK responses.

[bellymonster]

Lucy, if you were mine, instead of a Curly Wurly, I would have taken you up the Oxo Tower for a special treat.

HTH

Instead of a curly wurly I'd have got you a finger of fudge.

[daviejones]

Instead of a curly wurly I'd have got you a finger of fudge.

Or a kit kat

[BrilloPad]

Lucy does like Allsorts...

[The Lone Gunman]

Or a kit kat

kit kat is no good for our lucy, you only get 4 fingers in those.

[sasguru]

I'm glad to hear that at least some of the Police are doing the job we pay them for. Perhaps if you learnt to drive properly, as opposed to merely operating a vehicle with a complete disregard for the safety of yourself and others, you wouldn't have these problems?



He understood that you were angry with yourself for having done something stupid, although you won't face up to the fact that this is what you are feeling, instead seeking to transfer that anger to those who stopped you. He decided to help you by not getting you vodka, as he realised that turning to drink as a way of trying to avoid facing up to your self-hate would merely have added to your cycle of self-destructive behaviour.

Who will counsel the counsellors themselves?

WHS

[Lucy]

The thing is, a person-centred counsellor would never tell anyone why they did anything. Rogers main criteria for PCT were congruence, empathy and unconditional positive regard, a therapist/counsellor might offer an insight, very tentatively, but the main idea of PCT is that the right environment is provided for the client to find their own truth/answers/insights.