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Joys of being a parent!

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    #21
    MSN logs all the chats. I've told my daughter this and said that I will check them if I think I need to - if she deletes them, then I'll block her MSN on the router. Put bluntly, she is using one of my computers and and the internet I pay for. I trust her not to abuse it, but if I feel the need to check then I will. I have checked it a couple of times and it is pretty shocking what they say, but then it's how kids talk to each other.
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      #22
      Originally posted by MarillionFan View Post
      My daughter is now 15 months and we recently caught her kissing a 15 month old boy at nursery. I was incensed and burnt down both the nursery and the boys parents house.

      I've told her shes going nowhere now until she's as lease 30 months.


      Damn right, my daughters are 1 and 4, got to keep an eye on those pesky boys.


      On a serious note, I'm dreading teenage years big style!
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        #23
        Originally posted by SallyAnne View Post
        Oh here we go again...the "only parents understand" brigade.

        No I'm not a parent, but I'm a daughter. And I've been a teenage daughter with a dad who had to deal with me. Doesn't that qualify me for answerring this question like?
        Of course you can answer the question but until you have kids of your own you can only *assume* how you will handle such a situation. Nothing prepares you for how much having kids can change you.

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          #24
          Originally posted by SallyAnne View Post
          Oh here we go again...the "only parents understand" brigade.

          No I'm not a parent, but I'm a daughter. And I've been a teenage daughter with a dad who had to deal with me. Doesn't that qualify me for answerring this question like?
          Yeah SA but what you can never understand is the absolute emotional hold that a child has on you once you are a parent. I would've agreed with you before I became a parent, even had the step-daughter so thought I understood but once you have your own the gut wrenching feelings you get about them are akin to nothing else.

          Doesn't mean your view as a daughter who has been a teenage girl isn't valid tho'.

          Also being a teenage girl is a whole new world in last few years with t'internet and all that. Also culture is different - I thought caned the fags and booze when I was 15 but I'm nowt compared to some of my step-daughter's peers!! They seem to do less drugs than we did though - weird, I thought that was on the rise.

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            #25
            The best thing you can do is make sure she's not going to become a teenage mother, i.e. have the talk
            Last edited by Bagpuss; 1 October 2007, 10:58.
            The court heard Darren Upton had written a letter to Judge Sally Cahill QC saying he wasn’t “a typical inmate of prison”.

            But the judge said: “That simply demonstrates your arrogance continues. You are typical. Inmates of prison are people who are dishonest. You are a thoroughly dishonestly man motivated by your own selfish greed.”

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              #26
              Originally posted by Bagpuss View Post
              The best thing you can do is buy her some condoms
              Yeah and wish her good luck on getting a teenage lad to use 'em!

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                #27
                Originally posted by Chugnut View Post
                Of course you can answer the question but until you have kids of your own you can only *assume* how you will handle such a situation. Nothing prepares you for how much having kids can change you.
                He asked what the best approach would be - I answered as a daughter.
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                  #28
                  Originally posted by WindyAnna View Post
                  Yeah and wish her good luck on getting a teenage lad to use 'em!
                  I modified that becuase it looked like encouraging her, obviously 14 year old mums are very common in this country though
                  The court heard Darren Upton had written a letter to Judge Sally Cahill QC saying he wasn’t “a typical inmate of prison”.

                  But the judge said: “That simply demonstrates your arrogance continues. You are typical. Inmates of prison are people who are dishonest. You are a thoroughly dishonestly man motivated by your own selfish greed.”

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                    #29
                    Originally posted by Bagpuss View Post
                    I modified that becuase it looked like encouraging her, obviously 14 year old mums are very common in this country though
                    "The talk" is important. Getting her to understand that it is okay to say "no" or to say "yes" on her terms is the difficult bit ...

                    Teenage boys quotes from my mis-spent youth ... "I can't use them, they're too small" (yeah, right), "I can't feel anything with one of them on", "It'll make you sore if I use one so it's better for you without", "I'm allergic to rubber" and all the usual "you can't get pregnant the first time/standing up", "I'll stop if you don't like it". AAARGH teenage boys - quick check with step-daughter inidcates all of the above still in circulation 20 years on.

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                      #30
                      Just buy a chastity belt. That should solve the problem.

                      Part of me says that I'm looking forward to intimidating boyfriends when my girls get to that age (as my now father-in-law did to me). Part of me says that I'm absolutely petrified about the thought of boyfriends.

                      Hopefully, I've got some years to go yet - they're 4 and 15 months. Mind you, they're both pretty flirty so I can see the need to get a beating stick.
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