Bullying & Humiliation

[greenlake]

Do you people condone bullying and humiliation. Several members on my mortgage thread seem to think this is acceptable behaviour. All i did was ask something simple and all i got was a load of replies trying to wind me up, trying to humiliate me in public, trying to make me look stupid and degrade my spirit.

Here's some calming artwork to help you relax....



....and a recommendation for some medication that may help you deal with your issues....



Please get well soon.

[Lance]

....and a recommendation for some medication that may help you deal with your issues....



Please get well soon.

Thanks. I really wanted coffee all over my new shirt and keyboard.....

[Laughing Gravy]

What a first day to start posting although I've been lurking for quite some time. Now, can I get some free advice on bleeding radiators?

[NotAllThere]

In public? On an online forum behind an anonymous log in?

In this day and age? Such a thing could never happen.

I sent you a PM as the only one who gave you a sensible answer.
In short you are correct, lots of stuff gets allowed that would be instant dismissal or worse in the real world, and on the other hand lots of stuff gets deleted by the mods that only reflects what 99.99%of the 3 people I interact with daily (mum, self, todger)say day to day quite legitimately.

FTFY

The same could be said about a Yorkshireman born anytime couldn't it?

Any Yorkshire men born in 1969? Just hypothetically speaking of course...

[mattfx]

OP I've just looked at the original thread. Wow. You were blunt to the point of being rude mostly despite the first few posts being relatively informative (apart from GreenLake who cannot be expected to post anything but amusing images and memes - he provides an excellent service doing that too). You then went on to say this:

I made a mistake opening this thread. There seems to be so many people who defend paying a fee. I asked for fee free suggestions. If you cant comply with my request then please refrain from posting more irrelevant nonsense.

Don't post in fecking General if you want serious answers. In fact, Don't post on CUK if you want serious answers. Moneysavingexpert, Moneysupermarket or better still in your case, NetMums. They will probably be kinder, softer and generally more delicate with you.

[mattfx]

Greenlake serious question chum - do you actually do any work?

[clearedforlanding]

Don't post in fecking General if you want serious answers. In fact, Don't post on CUK if you want serious answers. Moneysavingexpert, Moneysupermarket or better still in your case, NetMums. They will probably be kinder, softer and generally more delicate with you.

Indeed. At CUK trips to Center Parcs are guaranteed.

[greenlake]

Greenlake serious question chum - do you actually do any work?

No....

[milanbenes]

I kid you not I saw the thread and thought it was a wind-up or a troll

and didn't have time tp reply

to tell the truth based upon the question I am not surprised at the responses

Milan.

[Platypus]

I kid you not I saw the thread and thought it was a wind-up or a troll

and didn't have time tp reply

to tell the truth based upon the question I am not surprised at the responses

Milan.

Careful Milan, you're next in line for a series of insulting PM's from the OP