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    #11
    Originally posted by EternalOptimist View Post
    but I am talking fixed costs, obligations. The laydeez will unnerstand
    Oh dear ! I thought one gets free shags after marriage

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      #12
      Originally posted by FatLazyContractor View Post
      I see, I thought you were one of us lot

      I think you should pay 20% and let the missus deal with the rest
      I think he means he's been WFH and watching judge judy and Kung fu all day. oops wrong login
      (\__/)
      (>'.'<)
      ("")("") Born to Drink. Forced to Work

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        #13
        Originally posted by EternalOptimist View Post
        and no man - hating please. That's MF's job


        nearly 20 years ago I moved in with mrs EO and we split all the common bills in half. just running costs.
        house insurance
        food
        gas and lekky
        ground rent
        council tax
        water
        TV licence
        sky rental
        phone

        and it came to £5200 or £100 per week. So I coughed up 60 pw. The idea being that she was struggling, eventually inflation would catch up, then she would be carrying me for a few years, then we would review the numbers to make it fair once again.

        that time has now arrived.
        so what do you reckon ? will I get my @rse burned ?
        100 quid a week. Jesus, where do you live? 1975?

        I pay for all the bills except food and the kids clothes which is paid for by the missus who gets 1200 a month in rent from some houses and child benefit. While I pay the mortgages on said rental property and the child benefit off my PAYE as I was too lazy too stop it even though we're not entitled.

        I still have to bail her out with an extra couple of grand every 4 or 5 months.
        What happens in General, stays in General.
        You know what they say about assumptions!

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          #14
          Originally posted by FatLazyContractor View Post
          I see, I thought you were one of us lot

          I think you should pay 20% and let the missus deal with the rest
          A real man would be for it all and only except additional payment back for foot rubs and back massages.
          What happens in General, stays in General.
          You know what they say about assumptions!

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            #15
            All these people boasting about how big their costs are.

            I have a genital wart that manages itself better than MF
            (\__/)
            (>'.'<)
            ("")("") Born to Drink. Forced to Work

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              #16
              Originally posted by EternalOptimist View Post
              All these people boasting about how big their costs are.

              I have a genital wart that manages itself better than MF
              Shut it Rigsby.
              What happens in General, stays in General.
              You know what they say about assumptions!

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                #17
                vetran

                I give Mrs V more than that as an allowance She works as well.

                Originally posted by EternalOptimist View Post
                yep me too. I pay for gifts and holidays, fill the freezer with meat etc

                but I am talking fixed costs, obligations. The laydeez will unnerstand
                Just how many of us are giving Mrs V an allowance

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                  #18
                  Fixed costs should be 50:50 avoid resentment later.

                  (Having covered a few ex'es costs - ungrateful b'stds )

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                    #19
                    Seems fair to me – we review our outgoings every 4-5 years, the contribution split is sort of a percentage of income, so previously my share has been at 30% then 50% nowadays its 70%
                    Growing old is mandatory
                    Growing up is optional

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                      #20
                      Originally posted by Halo Jones View Post
                      so previously my share has been at 30% then 50% nowadays its 70%
                      BGG is a clever man

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