prenups not enforcable in the UK
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Don't want to marry but have kid on the way
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Unless you're the lead dog, the scenery never changes.
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Originally posted by NibblyPig View Postprenups not enforcable in the UK
No doubt they will be challenged in the basis that the evil man lied about all assets which have to be listed in prenup at market values (which could be easy point of argument for assets without easy to check market price)Comment
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Originally posted by AtW View PostThey have to be taken into account by courts after recent High Court ruling.
No doubt they will be challenged in the basis that the evil man lied about all assets which have to be listed in prenup at market values (which could be easy point of argument for assets without easy to check market price)
I'm so bitterUnless you're the lead dog, the scenery never changes.
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Originally posted by ELBBUBKUNPS View PostI have distinct feeling though if it wasn't for the kid on the way we would of split and to be honest I think its more a mater of time rather than if it happens. .
Never stay together for the kids – you will both be miserable & the kids can tell, pay your maintenance, visit the kid often & be happy
Originally posted by ELBBUBKUNPS View PostThe marriage thing is coming from her and her family as there are religious.
Originally posted by EternalOptimist View PostYou are going to get married because someone else is telling you to. Really ? you have a lifetime of misery ahead of youGrowing old is mandatory
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I don't see why your parents situation would mean you don't want to get married. Since they both did it three times, there must be some merit in it!
Originally posted by ELBBUBKUNPS View Post.. I have distinct feeling though if it wasn't for the kid on the way we would of split and to be honest I think its more a mater of time rather than if it happens...
Originally posted by SueEllen View Post...So tell her family you if you decide to propose it will be in your own good time as she would probably like to have a good few drinks of alcohol at her own wedding and not feel fat.
The real reason to get married is what would happen if one or both of you had a terrible accident, or died but the children were fine - inheritance laws are still archaic. The child(ren) would be entitled to your money but she would not be entitled to anything and she would have to go to court to ask for it. Also they would have to pay inheritance tax.
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Never stay together for the kids – you will both be miserable & the kids can tell, pay your maintenance, visit the kid often & be happy..Down with racism. Long live miscegenation!Comment
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Common wisdom, but research (Wallerstein and others) suggests otherwise, so long as both parents can comport themselves in a civilised manner. Separation all to often means not seeing enough of one (or both) parent(s).
I have known of this sort of situation a number of times. The parents live in the same house, but have not been together, in the true sense, for quite a while.
Usually its other people that do not understand how this works, rather than them.The Chunt of Chunts.Comment
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Having been there as the mom, having a child is no reason to get married. My partner and I split up before the birth, so my son has never come from a "broken home" - his parents have always lived apart. He didn't have to go through the fighting and tension in the household and the feeling that he had to choose between his parents.
His Dad had him on weekends and paid child support etc, but that became less important to him after he married and had more kids. That hurt my son more than anything, so if you split up make sure that your child is ALWAYS your child even if you have more with someone else.
My son will be 23 next month and has turned out okCow: 2 hookers, 2 lookers, 4 stander-uppers, 4 hanger-downers and a swishy-wishyComment
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OP - You need specialist help in this instance. May I suggest that you check this link and let us know what you think?
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