Divorce and being Blackmailed

[SallyAnne]

Did that happen to you too? I feel so cheap and used now - she made me feel I was special.

Is this going to be the first ever accountancy thread to get moved to light relief?

Royal Albert - you're a noob. I hope you get stung.

HTH.

Edit: Ooops - I meant Royal Albert! Sorry Fridge (although I suspect you are a noob too, I am willing to wait a while before I pass judgement)

[Flubster]

Is this going to be the first ever accountancy thread to get moved to light relief?

Fridge - you're a noob. I hope you get stung.

HTH.

You're sooo harsh, SA. But that's why we love you so much (in a mumsie sort of way)...

[TheFaQQer]

Is this going to be the first ever accountancy thread to get moved to light relief?

Fridge - you're a noob. I hope you get stung.

HTH.

Who's Fridge? Are you thinking about another Wispa?

[TheFaQQer]

I think everyone is barking up the wrong tree. This is blackmail...shop your missus and her parents to the old bill. Forget trying to protect your assets and explaining away history. When they're banged up you'll have nothing to fear. You will need to get a new Company Secretary though...

No proof, though - unless they have put it in writing.

[SallyAnne]

Who's Fridge? Are you thinking about another Wispa?

My mind was drawn to food...no suprise

[TheFaQQer]

You're sooo harsh, SA.

As they say in Oz - harsh but fair.

[Royal Albert]

Thankyou to those who have given me advice. shame some people are slating me here. i am just looking for help as my son is growing up without seeing his father. i see him every weekend.

the answer to some of the questions.

Marriage is over, therefore divorce proceedings will start when i tell them, i dont accept there demands! which is why im biding time, to get things sorted.. e.g Ltd company

Either way she is a winner, as her family will get a house, whether through me, or through council. If there was any trust/love there, then we would be building bridges. Her family only want a house, whereas i have given plenty of options, which include rent, moving to spain, etc. The family is greedy and are money driven.

As for my son, oneday he will realise and when he is a little older, i know he will want to stay with me.

[BrilloPad]

I have recently retired from fathers4justice, having been the committed activist, london & forum co-ordinator. You can read about my exploits in Matt O'Connor's new book.

This story has really cheered me up - I am sick and tired of men whining what a hard time they get. When will we stand up for themselves?

Royal Albert - you are not being blackmailed - you have to do everything your wife says or you are a child abusing, wife beating low-life.

Everyone now knows who f4j are think there stories only happen to them. HELLO - NEWS ALERT - IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE.

Women run circles round us - and quite rightly. Men are selfish and never do anything except out of self interest. There are a few exceptions - via f4j I have met some fine men.

Royal Albert - please keep us updated about the (justified) kicking you get from the "family" courts. oh dear you can't - they operate in secret.

Personally I got quite a good deal from my divorce due to what I learnt from f4j. I have tried to spread the message but few listen. I can do no more. I'm off.

[max]

However i do have a Ltd company, which is seen as an asset

Yep...so on divorce you will split...

[NotAllThere]

I'm not sure how this:

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Marriage is over, therefore divorce proceedings will start when i tell them, i dont accept there demands! which is why im biding time, to get things sorted.. e.g Ltd company...

Squares with this:

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My wife and her family are blackmailing me to buy a house, otherwise divorce my wife

So, you are accepting their demands. They say "buy house or divorce". You're divorcing.

And how are they blackmailing you? Dodgy photos? Criminal dealings?

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As for my son, oneday he will realise and when he is a little older, i know he will want to stay with me.

No. You hope that he won't be poisoned by wife and inlaws to hate you forever. Or by the disclosure of what you're being blackmailed over.