The Brillo NLP thread

[vetran]

Going postal?

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[eek]

ASK YOURSELF

If I had been in the other person’s shoes, how would I have handled the situation?

Going postal?

[BrilloPad]

ASK YOURSELF
Was the person acting deliberately? Can I be sure?
Why do I believe that what they did was unfair? Would other people also think so?
What was the other person’s point of view? Is there any way I can find out?
How would the other person justify their actions?
If I had been in the other person’s shoes, how would I have handled the situation?

[oscarose]

better

absolutely - no problems to solve, no work.

[vetran]

think of problems as opportunities

better

[oscarose]

think of problems as challenges

[SueEllen]

If I was you, I'd stop spending time/money with NLP and concentrate on not skipping your medications.

Talking therapies work best alongside medications.

[petergriffin]

If I was you, I'd stop spending time/money with NLP and concentrate on not skipping your medications.

[BrilloPad]

If NLP were to be a 3 minute seminar - you would summarise it as needing to learn 3 things :-

1. Be clear of your outcome in any situation.
2. Be alert and keep your senses open so you know what you are getting.
3. Be flexible and keep changing until you get what you want.

Outcome
Acuity
Felexibility

[BrilloPad]

Learning a new skill breaks down into 4 stages :-
1. Unconscious incompetence
2. Conscious incompetence
3. Conscious competence
3. Unconscious competence

[BrilloPad]

Our conscious mind can only track 7 pieces of information at any one time.

[BrilloPad]

Adopt an attitude of curiosity and fascination rather than assumptions

[BrilloPad]

1. Think about outcomes not problems
2. Ask How rather than why questions
3. There is no such thing as failure - only feedback.
4. Consider possibilities rather than necessities