Reply to: My Love and sweetheart

[oracleslave]

How does mean he's not a stud and a hot guy? All the girls love a man of ambiguous sexuality. Believe me, I know.

You? Ambiguous? Well I never

[cailin maith]

Shag him in the stationary cupboard and then tell him he's tulip in bed and has a tiny penis. ignore him for two weeks and he'll never call you love or sweetheart again*.

HTH



*Of course he may call you bitch/evil slapper from hell, but it probably won't be to your face

You know..... that might work

[Captain Jack]

Does she not know you're a raving arse-bandit then?

How does mean he's not a stud and a hot guy? All the girls love a man of ambiguous sexuality. Believe me, I know.

[Ardesco]

The truth is I find it really sick... and I feel harassed by this... he is as old as my father, so I find it sick when he tries to be charming and gazes at me, or tries to crack some of this stupid boyish/ladish jokes and expects me to laugh at them ...

We had to change desks a few times, and they were about to put me next to someone I really disliked, at the time I told him not to make me sit next to the annoying guy, so he located my desk next to him, since then we have moved twice ( a lot of merger related relocations) so he kept placing my desk next to his every time we relocated, which I thought was fine, I think the guys are teasing him that I insist on sitting next to him, but the fact is I am avoiding someone else, and now he started saying this to me (only started last week)


I want to be diplomatic and not destroy a good professional relationship

Shag him in the stationary cupboard and then tell him he's tulip in bed and has a tiny penis. ignore him for two weeks and he'll never call you love or sweetheart again*.

HTH



*Of course he may call you bitch/evil slapper from hell, but it probably won't be to your face

[BlasterBates]

I'd have paid to be there....

Hey Sweeitie, how's Switzerland treating you.

[Churchill]

There's a woman at work who calls me "stud" and "hot guy" and it's getting a bit wearing now.

Does she not know you're a raving arse-bandit then?

[PAH]

I'd have paid to be there....

So would many other blokes.

Though it may be cheaper to move to the valley.

[El_Diablo]

Sandy my love relax, just humour him.

HTH sweetheart

[Francko]

I used to have a manager who talked to my boobs all the time, it got to me so much despite me havin a quiet word, so one day in the middle of the office, I shouted at him, "FFS.... they won't answer you back, no matter how hard you try to talk to them.... "

He should have tried harder.

[cojak]

I'd have paid to be there....

[cailin maith]

I used to have a manager who talked to my boobs all the time, it got to me so much despite me havin a quiet word, so one day in the middle of the office, I shouted at him, "FFS.... they won't answer you back, no matter how hard you try to talk to them.... "

He was mortified... left not long after....

[PAH]

Use your right of substitution and go work somewhere else. Should be easy as long as you know someone that's roughly the same height and build, and is also partial to walking around with a sheet over themself.

Recommend you don't approach anyone with a partialness for white sheets though, you may get your fingers burnt.

[sasguru]

There's a woman at work who calls me "stud" and "hot guy" and it's getting a bit wearing now.

You should be pleased your company is so enlightened that they employ blind people....

[beaker]

Sandy is Saraya Beg and I claim my unfair dismissal compensation

[Francko]

I get on with everyone at work, just because I dislike them it doesn't mean am stupid and actually show them that I don't like them!!

Naaaah can't be bothered with all that softly approach/ or harrasment, that's why I am a contractor, will just grit my teeth and smile at the old boy, may be drop into the conversation a few times that he is soooo much like my dad, and I think of him as a father figure!!

Not much left of this contract, I was offered a renewal for a couple of months and the old boy was only offered a one month renewal .

This sounds like a permie problem. My advice would be: accept a permanent job then you can sue him, kick him in the balls, write to the local newspaper, get a more senior position and fire him, etc. Else stop moaning like a permie and get on with the fact that the majority of people in this world are scum, at least as a contractor you can change them more often and quite often you don't even have the time to realise how scum they are.